When you ask 'Does my bum look big in this?'?
Do you want the truth? So, for example you ask a friend, or a lover, or a parent this. Do you want them to say yes it does actually? Or, would you prefer that they say, well those trousers are not helping matters. Or something a little softer? If it is a lover, how would you feel if they said, indeed it does?
What if you asked a lover, do I look old, and they agreed. How would you feel?
I think for me, I would prefer the truth, but a little sugar coated. How about you? (I used the bum thing as it is common, I personally wish I had a big butt, they are so sexy!) Men too, how do you feel if you are told by a lover you look like shite!