Is it unreasonable to think spouse should be loved as much as child?
I’m not a mother or married but it seems like most women show a lot of affection and love to their child and never their spouse vice versa. Don’t get me wrong, I believe you should love your child, protect, and put them first because its only natural and the right thing to do so since they depend on you but I don’t think that it’s okay to forget about your relationship and stop.
Maybe it’s just me? I see some couples who successfully show love equally making both the children and spouse feel special and loved and not just one sided.
I can’t help but think its wrong to love one person more than the other and choose in that way. It seems a lot of women say they love their child way more which is understandable but could also be somewhat hurtful to the spouse too? Maybe I’m just too young to understand?
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