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Are there people in your life that seem compelled to oppose you?

Asked by Hypocrisy_Central (26879points) July 24th, 2015

Sometimes it a fellow student, coworker, family members, social media user, etc. but they always seem to oppose you for no other reason than it seems like they are going against their code to agree with you on anything, even if you said the sky was blue, they will find a way not to agree. Do you have people like that in your life, real or cyber? If so, what do you believe their motivation is?

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jca's avatar

No. If they were optional people in my life, I would not deal with them.

DoNotKnow's avatar

I have had people in my life who have spent so much time playing devil’s advocate and taking on the adversarial role (for school), that it was impossible to make any statement that wouldn’t trigger, “Well, you know….”. Admittedly, I have taken on this role to some degree at certain points in my life.

That said, it’s my experience that people misinterpret genuine disagreement as just being intentionally argumentative more often. I have been accused more than a handful of times with taking a position merely because it represents an opportunity for argument. Having had this experience, I tend to assume people genuinely disagree and are not just looking for a fight.

josie's avatar

Depends.
I have lots of friends, of varying backgrounds and points of view. We all accept one another and cherish each others existence.
So in that case, no
But on Fluther, there is a definite reflexive opposition to the likes of me.
And since nobody here really knows me, it has to be something about them, and their habits and compulsions.
Which is fine with me. It’s only a Q and A site.
But Fluther is a terrific example of what you are talking about.

SQUEEKY2's avatar

Only on this site,but that’s OK we are all different.

Hypocrisy_Central's avatar

^^ But Fluther is a terrific example of what you are talking about.
It is somewhat disgusting sad that such an enlighten place as this, such redacted stuff goes on.

ucme's avatar

No, i’m surrounded by good people & have no bullshitters like that in my life.

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