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Girls, what are the most attractive features on a guy?

Asked by mattyhewson (25points) March 22nd, 2016

Maybe eyes, jawline, stubble, etc?

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Coloma's avatar

His brain. Intelligence and character trump looks every time.
Physical attributes, I like nice arms and strong hands and taller than a Shetland Pony. haha

janbb's avatar

Apparently, his mouth in some cases. :-)

Physical turn-ons for me are height, hands and arms, slimness, eyes and a warm smile.

Love_my_doggie's avatar

The stock answer is “a sense of humor,” and this is very true. A good sense of humor is very appealing; it puts people at ease, and it makes someone charming. But, such a thing can’t be forced. If a guy tries too hard to be witty, clever, and funny, he’ll make everyone uncomfortable. It’s better to be a bit shy or reticent than to act like a 50-year-old class clown.

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Intelligence, conversational abilities, wit, character, and a ready smile attract me to a man.

Physically, the point at which the neck becomes the shoulder always has an allure for me.

Yellowdog's avatar

My girlfriend compliments me on all of the above (hands, arms, eyes, demeanor). I do not think I am all THAT attractive but maybe a bot above average (that’s my picture—my icon, that is) however, I do NOT think I am the physical appearance she likes—she likes guys with darker hair and a little more rugged or manly)— however, my eyes (“what’s in them”) and hands (strong hands, if she gives the guy a chance to rub her neck or give her a massage)—and yes, for some reason, arms and legs—are a turn-on).

Guys, if a girl can tell that you will TREAT HER or any girl RIGHT, (they can tell usually)—that’s a turn-on to be taken into consideration but may not in itself win her over just yet.

I had a heckuva time getting my girlfriend to be attracted to me. And she really didn’t turn out to be everything I wanted or imagined or hoped for. But once she became attracted to me, the relationship became very passionate—something I never expected from such a shy and reticent woman.

Also, some say a nice but subtle cologne helps—maybe something with pheremones. I do not know but this really worked for me. I no longer need it but I would swear that it helped get me out of the restricted “friend zone”/

imrainmaker's avatar

One who treats them with respect and as a fellow human being and not just a commodity.

Tea_Gryphon's avatar

Physically for me it’s belly, hands, arms, smile, height. Personality is definitely a sense of humor, being sure of himself/confidence, loves animals, and has a soft, nougat-y side that he pretends to be embarrassed about but embraces, haha. (I think I’m sounding choosy, lol)

SecondHandStoke's avatar

Confidence, composure, grace, emotional maturity.

Adagio's avatar

Stubble, no no no, ouch!

Lulu4500's avatar

Ambition and intelligence with sprinkles of humility. In high school while the girls fawned over the athletes, my crush was our salutatorian lol.

Abs are nice too but those can be obtained by anyone if they work hard enough lol.

AuroraMeloncholy's avatar

-EYES
-An adorable smile
-A sense of humor

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