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Why do people want their adult entertainment to be so negative, nasty and offensive?

Asked by Cooper_Saldana (599points) April 12th, 2017

I was just checking out an adult site “Xvideos” and I was just thinking about how soulless and dead and heartless the porn industry seems and it made me realize what a strange juxtaposition the adult world is to the rest of the world.
In porn it’s ok to be nasty in fact they encourage it.
So I’m scrolling down through the videos and I see one titled “2 fat ugly chicks share one negro cock” and I thought “Wow, really?”
I kinda burst into laughter for a second and thought whoever write’s these titles has really given up on life.
Porn is just so unapologetic and disrespectful and yet it’s so popular.
We live in a strange world.
Why do people want their adult entertainment to be so negative, nasty and offensive?

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kritiper's avatar

That’s show biz! It draws a crowd and makes a buck.

Coloma's avatar

Yep, it’s a pretty grim industry but hey…you were there taking a peek. haha Sex sells, nothing new about that.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@Coloma You’re right, but I don’t know why the theme’s have to be so dark.
It seems like the more taboo the better or something.
Like it can’t be just beautiful blonde woman enjoys group sex it has to be titled “Nasty step mom show’s her daughter how to blow her boyfriend” or something stupid like that.
It’s all fake, but they try to reenact nasty things.
I guess I’m not into that stuff, but almost every adult site I’ve seen pushes that kind of stuff and makes me feel discouraged about where society is headed.

zenvelo's avatar

@Cooper_Saldana …I’m not into that stuff, but almost every adult site I’ve seen pushes that kind of stuff

Why do you keep going back to those sites? There are other types of porn out there that aren’t all about “nasty”. (BTW, what do you consider “nasty”? You keep using that term like it is commonly understood.)

There are a lot of men who want that kind of porn because they are feeling otherwise inadequate and need some fantasy vision of them being dominating over women.

Sneki95's avatar

Porn shows us the real us: naked, mindless and animalistic. That’s what we really are. We can pretend to be highly intelligent and above the nature. We can tell ourselves that we are above filthy animals and closer to god, but deep inside, we all know it’s not true. We all know we’re animals and nothing more.
Porn does not lie to us. That is why so many of us love porn, sex and fanservice. It’s the only place to let go of the mask and be yourself.
Why do people want their adult entertainment to be so negative, nasty and offensive?
Because we are negative, nasty and offensive.
There is no need in acting polite and being well mannered when you’re watching people acting like animals in heat, and behave like one yourself. If you truly were above it all, you wouldn’t watch porn.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@zenvelo Why do I keep going back?
I guess I try to stick to the more common sites like “Pornhub or YouPorn or Xvideos because I’m scared of getting viruses and all the really scary stuff that’s out there.
I can just enter what I’m interested in on the search bar and there’s always a beautiful woman on there that I find attractive.
I have to weed through all the “nasty” stuff first though.
Nasty to me is simulation infidelity, Abuse of any kind or just negative titles and themes like “whore get’s gangbanged” or racial terms used to describe people and just a whole lotta stuff that I don’t even want to say because it’s nasty.

Coloma's avatar

It’s shock value and always upping the nasty ante in the game. Sorta like deep frying bacon wrapped Snickers bars, anything to grab attention, create the erection of forbidden fruit so to speak. haha
People that watch this stuff are either 16 years old, jaded, bored, and more than a little depraved. Just don’t go there, be the better person you talk about.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@Coloma You’re right, but I’m just trying to use my fluther platform to make the world a better place.
I’m not against porn I just think it should be held to some kinda standard.
I like the sex, the nudity, I like amateur couples that post videos, I like to see people enjoying sex.
I just want the world to kinda take a look at the adult industry and demand that they make nicer, less offensive porn?
Anyway in my ideal world porn would be just as sexy, but a little more respectful.
That’s just my opinion, I guess?
I’m sure there are people out there that crave nasty stuff just like some people love horror movies and I don’t get it.
The world is strange to me.

ragingloli's avatar

How else could I indulge in my fantasy of being eaten alive by a giant slug?

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

@ragingloli I guess you’re saying that we all have different fantasies.

@Sneki95 So what you’re saying is that the everyday world we live in is fake and what goes on in nasty porn is the real us?
Interesting.
I guess that’s what I’m afraid of that or because porn is so popular it’s actually influencing society and the nastier the porn being pushed, the nastier people are becoming.
Also is porn like a drug?
Do people who like shocking things get bored and then need something more shocking?
I wonder about the psychology of the adult entertainment available and how it is either impacted by society or the reverse how it impacts society?

ucme's avatar

Dwarf strangling porn…short of breath <giggity>

Sneki95's avatar

@Cooper_Saldana Not fake, but a mask all right. Ever since we’re born, we’re molded by the rules of the society we live. We can’t escape from that. It is all for the prosperity of the society and every individual member of it. If we never came up with these rules and etiquette, we’d still be on trees. It’s not a bad thing at all. It’s not fake. It’s

Us humans are both animalistic and intellectual; we need to develop both of our natures inorder to survive. The intellectual part is catered to with morals and etiquette. The nod to the animalistic part of us is given through sex and other bodily functions. Porn caters to the animalistic in us, just like literature caters to the intellectual.

Coloma's avatar

@Cooper_Saldana Oh trust me, as a mature woman now, I’ve seen porn rise from sneaky back alley theaters in the 70’s to the advent of VCRs when you could bring porn into your home with ease t the internet gluttony of god only freaking knows what nasty you’re going to find if you go looking. haha
Big difference between erotic and tasteful porn and just plain insane and perverted.

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

Thanks @Coloma
I try not to go exploring because the internet is full of criminals.
Shit, I gotta go to work, nice talking to ya. : )

Cooper_Saldana's avatar

WAit a minute.
I asked this question.
Why am I answering it?
Now that’s a fucking question, LoL.

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