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missjena's avatar

How many people have you slept with?

Asked by missjena (905 points ) October 13th, 2008 from iPhone

And what’s your age and m/f?

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aneedleinthehayy's avatar

Two. Eighteen. Physically female.
What is the purpose of this question?

PupnTaco's avatar

M, 43, define “slept with,” please.

Do you really mean sleeping? Or any kind of sexual contact? Or shall we restrict or answers to penetration?

missjena's avatar

I guess just all the way regular sex. If u wanna add oral feel free

osullivanbr's avatar

I’m married so I’m forbidden by law from discussing such happy things.

Ncshawty's avatar

18 f zero :P

buster's avatar

“Counts notches on his headboard.” 26/m I say around 20 lucky ladies starting when I was 16.

missjena's avatar

buster age

buster's avatar

Is there an average for this stat?

wundayatta's avatar

I’m sort of curious missiena. Are you asking this so you can compare how you’re doing? If so, which way do you want to be compared to others: more, or less? And finally, what does more experience or less experience mean to you (or to anyone)?

missjena's avatar

to answer your questions to my question. 1) nope. 2) experience doesnt mean anything to me I dont think. Are you going to answer my question.

missjena's avatar

idk about an average I doubt it because its kinda like the question ” have you ever cheated” most people lie about these kinds of questions that’s why there’s not many statistics

lapilofu's avatar

missjena: I think people are curious why you’re asking. Are you going to answer their question?

And few enough people that I can count them on one hand’s fingers. I’m 19 and male.

missjena's avatar

I dont mind answering even though not many people are. I’m 23 slept with 4 ppl

missjena's avatar

I’m asking for entertainment. Why does anyone ask questions on fluther? Its fun to see what people say. If people dont like the question they dont have to answer

wundayatta's avatar

I’m afraid that I’m 52, and I’ve forgotten. More than a few, but fewer than I wanted.

bodyhead's avatar

Probably hundreds unless you’re quantifying ‘people’ as ‘living people’ – in which case, zero.

missjena's avatar

u sleep with dead people?

wundayatta's avatar

Hey. You wanted entertainment!

missjena's avatar

that’s true LOL

marinelife's avatar

None of your business.

missjena's avatar

I’m just honored marina u took the time out just to type none of your business. When clearly you didn’t have to write anything at all. Bravo !

deaddolly's avatar

i’m virginal.

marinelife's avatar

@missjena I had time. I was trying to make a point.

I find the question intrusive and with no real merit (you already stated you did it for “entertainment”) not for any real gathering of knowledge. Further, it does not really have any communal value.

You might find the Fluther Guidelines useful.

syz's avatar

I’m in the Marina camp

deaddolly's avatar

me too, but i’m still virginal,,,,

marinelife's avatar

@dd You are. I have always thought so.

As for me, I am in the Madonna camp on this.

lapilofu's avatar

Also, how should people who are not straight answer this question?

syz's avatar

What?!? I hate to tell you, but gays sleep with people, too.

deaddolly's avatar

btw….I’m curvy.

lapilofu's avatar

@syz, oh, I know that. But given that missjena specified “I guess just all the way regular sex.” how should a gay person consider their sex?

syz's avatar

Good grief. Sex between two gay partners is “all the way regular sex”.

lapilofu's avatar

@syz, So you’d just count anal sex then? Or are you counting oral too? Except oral doesn’t count between straight people in the context of this question. But what about straight people who have had anal sex, but not vaginal intercourse? Does that count as one person you’ve slept with? If anal sex counts for gay people, it should count for straight people too, right?

Or what about sex between lesbians? Presumably fingers and mouths don’t count for straight people, but between lesbians? Or do lesbians all just ring up a big zero? Or does only penetration with a strap-on count?

syz's avatar

This is clearly pointless….

lapilofu's avatar

What I’m trying to point out is the absurdity of asking the question in the first place. I suspect you agree with me, but my point wasn’t made clearly enough.

missjena's avatar

um you can count gay sex I dont care. Hey if your answering the question stop complaining about it. Some people need to seriously relax. Or get more ass. LOL jk jk

missjena's avatar

I guess to a gay person regular sex would be different to them, that’s all. I never said male to female.

rockstargrrrlie's avatar

I’m a 23 year old female and I’ve slept with five people.

loki's avatar

I’m a whore.

aanuszek1's avatar

I lost count at one million.
just kidding. virgin.

girlofscience's avatar

Haha, I know this was asked two months ago, but I found it, looking through missjena’s ridiculous questions.

I’m not sure why everyone gets so bent out of shape about this. I wouldn’t judge someone either way (too little experience / too much experience), but I do think it’s an interesting statistic, and I don’t think it should be as intrusive of a question as everyone is making it out to be.

I applaud rockstargrrrlie for being the only honest answer here. (Oh, and yes, that’s accurate; I know her in person.)

I’m a 22-year-old female, and I’ve slept with eleven people.

missjena's avatar

girlofscience is this is such a ridiculous question, tell me, why are you answering it?

girlofscience's avatar

@missjena: First of all, I didn’t say that this was a ridiculous question. I believe that some of your questions are ridiculous, and so when I looked through all of your questions, I called it the list of ridiculous questions. Secondly, just because a question is ridiculous doesn’t mean I won’t answer it. Third, I don’t really think this is a ridiculous question because I, too, find people’s “numbers” to be interesting.

Aren’t you pleased that you were able to find out the number of people that rockstargrrrlie and I have slept with? Isn’t that what you wanted?

missjena's avatar

why would I want to know specifically who you and rockstar slept with? This questions wasnt meant for specifically both of you? ANyway I like my questions this is what this website is for.

girlofscience's avatar

@missjena: Well, you wanted to know how many people flutherers have slept with, and we’re both flutherers.

MeinTeil's avatar

I seriously don’t know. Not that it was a stupid high number,
but I get to a point where I couldn’t keep track.

Mat74UK's avatar

M 35yo – 44ish. Please oh please someone make a graph or pie chart in relation to this!

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