A PART OF ME WANTS TO ERASE HIM FROM MY PAST...but apart of me still wants him in my future?

I say if the ship is seaworthy, then yeah, sail.

In the meantime, take some baby steps.

Let him go. He’s just gonna keep hurting you.

Completely let him go. If he really loves you, he will break up with her and find you. But you need to move on, date others, and not see him at all while he is seeing her. Even though it might hurt.

yeah well thats easier said then done..but i think you are completely right…thank you

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Throw this catch back and keep casting.

I’m loving the sea references.

yeah there are plenty of fish in the sea but seriously who wants to date a fish…i’m just kidding i completely get what your saying…its just hard you know…

Good luck with your decision.

“Actions speak louder than words.” If he sincerely wanted to be with you, he’d give you no reason to doubt it. It appears that he likes knowing that you are waiting in the wings, pining for him.

You deserve better. Preserve your dignity and walk away. If he comes after you, set clear boundaries and be prepared to stick to them. (I know how tough it is… this is the voice if experience!)

Good luck!

Do you watch a lot of Jerry Springer? If you do, you know where this is going. Unless you thrive on drama…... RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Leave this zero and find yourself a hero. Talk is cheap. Actions are what matter, and I’m not seeing any actions from Bob that match his talk.

Drop him like a hot potatoe.

Why not have a baby with him? Then you can maintain this gawdawfully painful relationionship for the rest of your life. He may even cheat on all of his women with you. You could all form a club and call yourselves ‘The Sisterhood of Bob’s Traveling Pants’

@galileogirl that is priceless!!

Yeah, I say bye bye Bob. What a jerk. Don’t put up with that crap, girlfriend. Just remember, if you’re willing to take the crumbs, that’s all your going to get. Sorry, sucks but it’s true. YOU CAN DO MUCH BETTER!