Is porn good to look at if you want to get used to what a girl looks like befour you have sex in your life?

Is this your first time at having sex?

Porn films are in no way realistic. Don’t do what you see in porn. Most of it is very degrading to women.

No.

I mean, yeah if you’re looking to just get a feel for what the parts are. But you won’t learn a thing about what to do with them.

Porn is great for showing you some aspects of a woman’s anatomy that you don’t get to see a lot of, normally. You’ll see a lot of variety in what nipples and vaginas look like.

The other stuff tends to be quite a bit more manufactured and homogeneous. Certain body types are preferred for pornography that aren’t representative of the rest of the population.

Yes. In my experience all women look like, and do things just as they do in porn.

If you go to your local shopping mall and look around for an hour, you can see plenty of women and get used to what they look like. You don’t need pornographic movies for that. If there is any question about where certain body parts are, how they work, or what do with them, I would consult a biology book or some other kind of reference material on sexual relations as opposed to a sexual education being provided by pornographic material. But that’s just my opinion.

It’s like a good case study in the tutorial.

Porn can give you a good “layout” of what girls look like naked. Amateur porn can give you an idea of what it’s ACTUALLY like (regular porn most definitely will not).

@The_Compassionate_Heretic Great Answer!!

Please do not use porn as a guide. It will make the girls time horrible. @The_Compassionate_Heretic is 100% correct!!! Just do what comes natural. :)

Also, girls in most porn are not very accurate. I mean yeah we all have vaginas and boobs, but those girls in porn are usually fake. Don’t expect the girl your with to have a perfectly sculpted body.

@AstroChuck lurve.

great suggestion, westy!

Absolutely not. Porn creates unrealistic expectations, is degrading to both men and women, and in many circumstances creates an atmosphere of unsafety.

When you are in a safe relationship. Loving or not (because I understand that many people have sex consensually without love). Then you will feel comfortable getting to know the layout of your partner. And it will be more fun with a “real girl” vs. porn anyhow.

NO.

First things first: How to perform cunnilingus. Pay attention to the anatomy link, and read that too. Also, here is a useful page of sex tips.

As for porn, it’s makes inexperienced people develop all sorts of unrealistic expectations. It’s great entertainment for people who know better, but it also seems to make smart, sexually adequate men think they have small penises, and they develop all sorts of useless and annoying complexes that are good for nobody.

Also, most women would rather clean the toilet then get slapped in the face with a dick and shot in the eye with semen. It does NOT feel good. When you see that in porn, I can guarantee that in her mind, the porn star is thinking, ”... and that’s why I get paid the big money” which is exactly what most of us are thinking at work when we are being verbally abused by our boss or a customer. If you ever, in the middle of sex, just randomly pull out and shoot it on her face without asking her, you are lucky man if she doesn’t punch you in the nuts once she’s able to see again. Save the “we wish we were porn” sex for when you’re older and have a more experienced partner who is willing to do those things after having discussed it first.

Caring about the enjoyment of your partner is the key to getting laid by them a 2nd time. Ask questions. Insist she give you feedback on how you’re doing. Pay attention. Nothing will teach you more about how a girl looks down there than having a partner who’s learned to trust you in bed who will let you explore, examine, and play.

Porn is in no way realistic!
If you did what most porn stars do to your other half chances are they wouldnt be you partner for very long!
As long as you know where eveything goes you cant go wrong!

Yes, id recommend some Donkey Punch that site is awesome. Also gear up for some 2girls1cup and Mr. Hands.

After that you should be the stud youve always wanted to.

No. Completely no. Most porn is completely unrealistic and if you “learn” from porn you will end up pissing off a lot of women. If you want to learn, it’s best to be honest with your partner and simply have fun exploring each other and communicating (asking what feels good, what could be improved).