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How do I come on to a guy?

Asked by nailpolish (20points) January 28th, 2010

he goes to my school (community college) & every time we see each other, we just look at each other (you know that LOOK?). Sometimes I smile slyly at him and quickly take my Blackberry from my pocket and keep busy. We have no friends in common, he’s cute & i want to get to know him.Please help me because i don’t know how to come on to him.

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mowens's avatar

Walk up and say hi, ask him a dumb question about class.

Just keep him talking. Just ask a bunch of questions.

Blackberry's avatar

Ask some question(whether you know the answer or not)and he’ll know automatically (or should know) that it’s time to ‘get to work’ lol. You guys just then start talking and hit it off, then comes the babies and marriage etc lol(just kidding).

stump's avatar

Walk past him and drop your books all over. If he isn’t a jerk, he will help you pick them up. He will know you did it on purpose and ask you something about your books or classes. The rest will soon be history.

CMaz's avatar

As him to go to lunch.

Your_Majesty's avatar

Don’t judge too fast that he love you either. He might have already had a girlfriend,the ‘smile’ may just his politeness around girls. Oh well,if you shy then you can send him ‘a secret love letter’(traditional way) then by doing that you’ll know his true feeling plus you won’t feel ashamed if he decide not to accept you.

SeventhSense's avatar

Just hang around him, make eye contact and smile a lot. He’ll catch on. If you look away keep smiling and and acting coy.

Cruiser's avatar

You should just walk up to him in the hallway and say I think you are really cute wanna get a soda, coffee, lunch?

If he declines you will at least not have to forever wonder about the one that maybe got away.

njnyjobs's avatar

If he has a Blackberry, ask him something about the features… like PIN messaging and Blackberry messenger, from there, you can try out the features together and ask if its ok to be messaging buddies . . .

If no blackberry, then tips above are great advices

Judi's avatar

Just say, “so what’s your name?”

nailpolish's avatar

thank you so much girls & guys! i’m gonna go for it tomorrow :)

deni's avatar

walk up to him and jump in and say “HI, wanna get lunch?!”. if he did it to you, imagine how happy you’d be! he probably feels the same way. so do it. you’ll likely make his day. and yours. and maybe a great friendship/relationship will come of it. but you never know til you try :)

SeventhSense's avatar

and wear a mustache..guys love that

deni's avatar

evidently they do…....dont act like you dont

SeventhSense's avatar

umm…well there was Olga…

CMaz's avatar

@deni – Your mustache is HOT!

deni's avatar

i was just typing that! i know how highly you think of my mustache…makes me all fuzzy inside

judochop's avatar

And fuzzy on the lip.

You
don’t need to come on to the guy. Just say hi. Let him do the rest.

TheBlackRanger's avatar

Guys love directness!! Just come up to him and tell him that he seems pretty cool and that you would l iike to get to know him better.

Janka's avatar

If you wanted to be friends with a girl of the same age, what would you do?

RAWRxRandy's avatar

Lol by just looking at the question I get perverted thoughts.

Just go up to him when he’s alone adn start talking. But that could be hard to do. I’d just muster up all my courage and ask him out in one huge breath

PandoraBoxx's avatar

You could just walk up and say, “I see you so often on campus, I’m beginning to feel like we’re old friends. Hi, my name is @nailpolish.”

SeventhSense's avatar

Slip this in his Ipod

Scooby's avatar

Just say hello & take it from there !! without texting!! :-/

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

Pay attention and find out something he’s good at or has a lot of knowledge of. Then ask him about that. Guys just love it when we get to “show” or “tell” a girl we like about something we are good at or know about.

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