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What does it mean to dream of your ex accusing you of cheating?

Asked by busta21 (102points) November 26th, 2010

I had this one dream of my ex accusing me of cheating. We were sitting down with all his friends. Then all his friends tried and get at me. He then just disappeared and I had got up and was with one of his friends. Then we had kissed (it was a peck). Then out of no where I was with some one else. It looked like a mixture of my 2 ex’s put in 1. He had the body of one of my ex’s and the eyes of another. We ended up kissing. Then my ex (the one that disappeared) appeared out of no where and was standing up and was like “cheating much.” Then the guy I was kissing was like “you to go out.” Then he got socked in his face by my ex. Then my ex was like “Why the hell would you go out with my cousin?” (he was hella heated). After that I woke up. Now I’m wondering what does it mean to dream of that whole entire occurrence? I also have been dreaming of that person that looks like a mixture of 2 of my ex’s (The one that got socked). What does it mean to dream about that person over and over again and in all the dreams you have of him you end up kissing? What does it also mean to dream of you and your ex kissing (just him, nothing different)

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Scarlett's avatar

I think it means you’ve really had him on your mind. That’s what It means when you dream about someone… about the details I’m not really sure.

When me and my boyfriend were in a not so good stage with each other, we had dreams about the other perspon with someone else, and I had a nightmare he was with another girl.

wundayatta's avatar

Your ex is a part of your life that is gone. It can be a part of your personality that you have left behind. All the other characters are the new you and the new things you are doing. You like it a lot. But the part of you that has been left behind keeps showing up to try to get back in your life.

It sounds to me like you’ve had some significant change in your life since you left your ex. Yet, despite all the new things you’ve been doing, your old life keeps showing up to make judgements about the new. Perhaps you have a new philospohy of life or new way of living that your old self would not approve of.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

It means you owe me money. ;)

deni's avatar

why would it ever matter?

busta21's avatar

I think that all dreams have a meaning and they are given to you to help you in your waken life. So I was just wondering what it meant.

tedd's avatar

Guilt.

busta21's avatar

Why am I guilty? (I don’t cheat on him or nothing I was the perfect girl to him, at least that’s what he told me)

NanoBiscuit's avatar

because you are not actually guilty of the infraction of cheating, perhaps in some way you are blaming yourself internally, spent a lot of time thinking about the “why” and “how” things turned out, and when you sleep it’s your subconscious pushing the prior stress of the old events together into your dream, meaning (to me at least) keep the memories, but let go of the old thoughts/analysis. :)

beaaach's avatar

When someone points the finger, they are usually guilty of what they are accusing others of. So maybe he was cheating, or maybe he really thinks you are a cheater

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