How do I "snatch" this guy?
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January 17th, 2011
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We’ve hung out a few times, I reallyyyy like him but I feel like he’s giving me mixed signals, or I’m just worrying too much.
I’m used to guys bugging me constant so when he doesn’t, I guess it freaks me out. I know I’m expecting him to be like the others. I want him to know that I like him, but how do I do it? I’m thinking of inviting him to treat him for lunch but I don’t know if that would be weird?
How do I hang out with him more without appearing too eager or creepy? For example, if he didn’t seem to be interested in hanging out that day, would it be too much to see what he was up to the next day?
I feel like such a geek asking these and feeling this way, ha…
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Be everything he wants you to be.
He’s playing you to perfection. He knows that if he acts hard to get, you’ll want him all the more. You gotta stop chasing and play hard to get yourself.
I am so glad I’m not a teenager any more!
Sure, ask him to lunch—- ONCE.
Well, if this was my situation, I’d hang out with him for a little while longer, and try to hint that I’m interested, and maybe see if he really is too. Then I’d ask him to lunch or something, and see how it goes.
Guys can be really unpredictable though :( Ugh.
What is exactly “playing hard to get”? I guess I’m worried we will lose touch.
Just be confident enough to ask him directly if he would like to go for a coffee. That way you will know for sure if he likes you or not.
Then you can take things further or move on. Good luck
I would ask him out for coffee (or a soda) first. That has less heavy connotations than lunch.
Would it be too forward if I just told him straight up I like him?
If I were you then I wouldn’t play hard to get. You know mistakes happen. So while you are all up there trying to play hard to get then he could get the wrong idea and maybe himself would start thinking that maybe you don’t like him and he would stop being interested… hope it makes sense lol
But yeah my best advice would be just to talk to him face to face and see what happens from there on.
Send him mixed signals back. Be really flirty one day, and don’t even look at him the next. I don’t really like these “games” people play.. but they do seem to work better than being honest, I’ve found. I suppose that is sad.. or is it?
Gosh the dating game is so confusing! Haha.
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