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(NSFW) Do you and your spouse/partner often laugh while lovemaking?

Asked by WillWorkForChocolate (23137points) December 31st, 2011

My husband and I frequently do or say things that get us giggling. Like when I made him wear his new cowboy hat the other night and started spurring his butt with my heels and saying “Ride ‘em cowboy!” We have fun with it.

I’ve had friends tell me they don’t joke or laugh while lovemaking because it would kill the mood.

What say you, jellies?

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18 Answers

linguaphile's avatar

No partner at this time, but I’d rather laugh and have fun. Life’s serious enough as it is.

Have fun!!

rebbel's avatar

Of the thirteen times a week, about five or six are with laughter (usually that is when the lights are on and my girlfriend sees me).

deni's avatar

Laughing would kill the mood? What a load of manure. I totally do not feel that way. I think it’s so much more fun to laugh about things during sex. It’s cute. What do these prunes do when the lady queefs, just pretend it didn’t happen?

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Sure, we laugh. We laugh a lot when not having sex so why stop then?

Charles's avatar

Never during; almost always after. Sometimes before but it stops prior to the act.

Earthgirl's avatar

I like it to be playful but it depends on the mood we are in. If it was very intense and one person laughed obviously that would make the other person wonder WTF?? Sometimes funny things happen and you just have to laugh. It would be more awkward not to laugh! For example you try to change positions and you kick him in the head. No, that doesn’t happen too often but it could, it could, lol. Or you lean too far back and lose your balance and slip. Or the bed collapses or something. The best times of all are when you laugh outloud for pure happiness and enjoyment. The spirit is one of being just wrapped up together in your own world, almost playing like children.

Bellatrix's avatar

Often. We laugh a lot together generally and sometimes funny things happen when we have sex.

fizzbanger's avatar

Sometimes we will get each other giggling over some kind of nonsense, and then that winds up being a catalyst for some making out, and then clothes come off…

augustlan's avatar

Sometimes, sure. Especially that time our bed broke!

OpryLeigh's avatar

All the time, that’s what makes it awesome. I love nothing more than being in bed with my fella, having sexy time, laughing, talking etc. That’s when I feel like I most belong.

jazmina88's avatar

It’s funny, my pup wont let a guy touch me…....:p

A guy would lose an appendage. Now I have to sneak out to get some.

That’s funny.

linguaphile's avatar

Once my guy and I fell off a bed. What are we gonna do? Cry? Nah. Laugh!

Earthgirl's avatar

jazmina88 Is your dog a male? If so, I guess he thinks you’re his bitch!

choreplay's avatar

Not all the time but often. During tickling or wrestling matches, stuff like that.

mattbrowne's avatar

When the phone rings.

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