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How to ask her to prom?

Asked by astroidsurf1 (10points) January 14th, 2013 from iPhone

Ok, so I want to ask my girlfriend to prom, but I want to do something really cool to show her what she means to me. So, to help, she absolutely LOVES dance, and is on the dance team and everything. She really likes music as well. I want to do something hopefully along the lines of dance type of theme. This can be a poster, or homemade, or scavenger hunts, anything. I just need help! Don’t hesitate to throw out ideas!

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Pachy's avatar

Drop by her house one evening, of course making sure beforehand she’ll be home. Show up at her door dressed up exactly like you will the night of the prom. Be sure to bring flowers.When she comes to the door, ask if she’s ready to go to the prom, and then say, Oh!, I must be early! Give her the flowers and ask if she’ll officially go with you on whatever the date of the prom is. How can she say no??? Be sure to take flowers when you pick her up for real. ;-)

Pachy's avatar

Can you write an invitation in the form of a song, record it. and then give that to her? That would be fun.

Sunny2's avatar

You could hand letter a formal invitation for her. Google the proper form for invitations of various kinds.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Get a nice bouquet of flowers, go to her door and just ask her.

chyna's avatar

Put some kind of video together using her favorite music and some kind of dancing ending with asking her to the prom. Get some of your friends to help. Choreograph some fun moves that reflects her love of dance and music.

dxs's avatar

@Pachyderm_In_The_Room Singing it live is even better!
A more crafty/youthful approach could be if you taped something like ”[her name], will you go to prom with me? -[your name]” or something more simple on lockers near hers. I remember someone doing that at my high school once.

burntbonez's avatar

I’m not sure I would do something dance themed. Can you dance? Something romantic might be to take her out ballroom dancing or to Tango lessons or something, and then after the dance, do a pseudo wedding thing—get down on your knees and ask her to the prom. But if you don’t know how to dance, I wouldn’t do this. It would be like competing with her.

Or you could promise to take lessons with her until the prom, so you can look really good dancing there. I don’t know if anyone really cares, though. From what I understand, kids don’t dance much, and when they do, they kind of just hold each other and sway back and forth. Not much fun, if you ask me

So I would opt for a serious, straightforward approach, unless you are good dancer, yourself.

Kardamom's avatar

I’m thinking something like a flash mob brought to her front door. Are there any other friends/students who you could talk into doing this with you?

Pachy's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe is exactly right about just asking her with flowers. Simple wins every time.

JessK's avatar

If you really want to go overboard, enlist her dance team to choreograph a short dance or something with you and do it for her in her classroom, at lunch, or at her door.

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