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(NSFW) Any ideas that are bound to be good?

Asked by poisonedantidote (21675points) November 3rd, 2013

Hello everyone, today I have a question about BDSM for you.

The situation is this. You have your SO tied up, they can’t see or hear anything, and have been like that for a good 10 minutes wondering when something is going to happen happen.

The question is, can you come up with any good ideas to do to them, that would provoke some kind of surprise and reaction or interesting sensations for them?

EDIT: ideally sensual and romantic things.

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talljasperman's avatar

Tickle them with a smooth feather. It can be agonizing and pleasurable. Or take this time to get house hold chores done.

Seek's avatar

Ice cubes.

rojo's avatar

Ice cubes? Where?

Valerie111's avatar

Drip wax over his body.
I would probably give him an oily massage and tease him by not touching him in certain places but close by ;)

Kardamom's avatar

Dude! It’s good to hear from you! Did you and your fiancee ever find the means to get married? I’m sure we’re all waiting to hear the whole story.

Oh, and let her smell and taste a strawberry.

josie's avatar

Untie her, take her out to a restaurant she loves, drink wine she enjoys, and then go back and continue without the restraints. That’s what seems to work for us.

Seek's avatar

@rojo Internally, preferably. hot/cold combination is amaaaazing.

poisonedantidote's avatar

@Kardamom Hi thanks, yea I been away for a while. Unfortunately we have not managed to get married yet, but we have started talks with an agency in Denmark, with a view to going to get married there around the end of December of beginning of January.

Thanks for all the answers so far guys.

Kardamom's avatar

@poisonedantidote This has been one legendary romance from the get go. I’m crossing my fingers for you.

Unbroken's avatar

Well I am happy to hear ya’ll are still together. I.e. governments and parents haven’t seperates you.

So she can’t see or hear or move then you have to prey on the other heightened senses. Hot wax may be too much. I used to like hot things just above the surface of my skin heated rocks etc but she has to be able to know to tell you to move it.

Also smells…. What turns her on. For example I like being soaking wet in midst of copulation dipping a finger in our juices and bringing it up to my nose. It smells so hot.and intimate. But she may be turned on by another smell.

Touch of increasing intensity a few nibbles bites and sucks in between. Hot and cold is excellent. But I also like texture. The textiles of different fabrics the friction. Some roughness in a sensitive area. I don’t like goopy but sometimes oily is great.once shes turned on a little more nipple clamps are fun.. try easy some easy ones to start with. It can be easy for those to hurt.

Stretching to a degree is also nice just having like a wedge or two under her butt. Or blocks under her knees so she is on display for you and feels a light stretch of the muscles.

LuckyGuy's avatar

I’ve heard that a sumptuously, soft-bristled Japanese calligraphy brush can feel quite wonderful when gently applied to certain areas.
(I wouldn’t know, of course.)

You’re welcome.

LornaLove's avatar

Half of he turn-on is not knowing what will happen next. Where she will be touched, or kissed.

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