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(Nsfw) How do I manage to please my partner?

Asked by dopeguru (1917points) June 23rd, 2016 from iPhone

Swallowing. I love giving head but I feel gross about cum being inside my mouth, so I don’t finish purposefully. I want to please my partner the best way I can as he does the same with me. Is there a method to managing to swallow?

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Unofficial_Member's avatar

You need not to force yourself to swallow cum if you are uncomfortable in doing that. Sex is about understanding and if he’s not understanding enough to let you not swallow his cum then he’s a selfish person.

I also have a hard time swallowing such thing as well (it felt like my mouth being chugged with loads of salty mucus-like substance and it was impossible for me to think of it as edible liquid that I can swallow) so I can feel your dilemma. Letting him squirt his cum all over your face/body could also provides the same satisfaction for the both you.

anniereborn's avatar

Maybe you can just do it once in awhile to make it special. I don’t know if that’s even possible for you at all, but that’s what I do. I would not want to do that all the time, but once in awhile is nice for him. You could always chug some water/soda/whatever right after :p

janbb's avatar

If it bothers you, don’t do it. You can always “finish” him another way – with your hand or intercourse or between your breasts.

marinelife's avatar

Just tell him frankly how you feel. Perhaps have him suggest some fantasies of his for other ways.

Haleth's avatar

By giving him a blowjob, you’ve already done a lot to please your partner. As the lady, you get to decide what happens to ~the load.~

CalHoncho's avatar

I suppose it’s an acquired taste. lol

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