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jamzzy's avatar

What should i do?

Asked by jamzzy (885points) August 22nd, 2008

the school year is coming up and im still kind of recovering from my last break up, when i come to school i need to let her know that shes missing out…you know? I like revenge so making her feel kind of bad for breaking my heart is a must

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eambos's avatar

You are still in school, relationships will come and go many times. Just forget about it.

kevbo's avatar

Living well is the best revenge.

jamzzy's avatar

i really dont want to just forget. highschool is life RIGHT NOW. ill think about the future when im out

wrestlemaniac's avatar

Take Revenge sweet revenge, make her feel your pain.

jca's avatar

if you go out with other people and have a good time she’ll see that and it may make her feel bad. and if it doesn’t, at least you’re having a good time…...

loser's avatar

Let it go… Besides, now you’re free to meet someone new over the summer!

flameboi's avatar

The best thing you can do is become wildly successful, be a winner, and show up after a few years, the “thank you for breaking my heart” attitude is the best, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, or in this case, makes you a better person…

gailcalled's avatar

“Revenge is a dish best served cold.” Wait and find other people and other things.

Sloane2024's avatar

I understand where you’re coming from, seeing as I’m in high school too and know how brutal the social scene can be, but, trust me, if you come back w/ another chick, she’s gonna know you’re just trying to make her jealous; therefore, your point is defeated. The very best way to react to your current predicament is to return to school and spend time hanging out with your friends, participating in extracurriculars, and not making a special effort to avoid her or to talk to her. The worst feeling to a girl is when she thinks the guy has absolutely no feelings for her at all. She’d rather him hate her guts than be completely emotionless with her. Don’t mess with the revenge thing. If what the two of you had was really special, she’ll eventually recognize the terrible mistake she made, and, by then, you’ll have moved on, leaving her behind to regret her ignorant decision, which is the most heart-wrenching revenge of all.

robmandu's avatar

What’d she do to you that was so bad?

aisyna's avatar

tell her she was such a horrible girlfriend she turned you gay.

aidje's avatar

Don’t be a jerk. Just get over it. Even if she was terrible to you, don’t stoop to her level.

buster's avatar

Hookup with one of her friends. She will hate that.

eambos's avatar

Hook up with all of them – At the same time!

gailcalled's avatar

Go help an old lady across the street. Work in a soup kitchen, join the chess or Ultimate Frisbee team. make dinner for your mom, write a song, make a movie, get all A’s. Move on.

The_Inquisitor's avatar

Dude… revenge?! .>__>

honestly, that’s kinda mean… haha, but i guess it’d make you feel better…

aidje's avatar

I doubt it. People often think that revenge will make things better, but I’ve never seen that actually be the case.

A couple of pithy quotes to annoy you (and I mean “you” in the general sense, not in the ”@curiouscat” sense):
“In taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy; but in passing it over, he is superior.”

And as several people have said in this thread, “Live well. It is the greatest revenge.”

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