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deusexmachina's avatar

How do you flirt (and meet people)?

Asked by deusexmachina (170points) January 29th, 2009

Specifically, I’m a gay dude trying to just… find someone to date, haha. :|

So any helpful tips on meeting people & flirting would be much appreciated :)

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DrBill's avatar

Just be nice, and nature will take its course.

aprilsimnel's avatar

Improv! No, really, take some improv classes, long form or short form, doesn’t matter. You get to act silly and be creative and you’ll be around others who are of the same mindset. Where I live, there’s lots of cute gay guys involved in improv groups and classes.

tennesseejac's avatar

i just do the googily eyes and sometimes a wink, if i get a wink back i go in for the kill (so far no luck)

Elumas's avatar

Today (no joke):
I play piano and I was waiting to audition for this play. I was playing the piano in the waiting room and making up (singing and playing) songs off the cuff to people gathered around me. There was this really cute girl in the back of the room reading a book. I made up a song and called her pretty in it. It was really funny, she blushed and stuff and very cutely left the room. Her name was Carrie. I’m going to miss that girl.

chyna's avatar

@Elumas Find her! Surrendipity!

Elumas's avatar

@chyna I SHALL, Carrie my love, I will find you.

girlofscience's avatar

@aprilsimnel: I couldn’t have thought of a better suggestion. Lurve.

nebule's avatar

smiling at random people when i have the bottle to do it

Noon's avatar

I’ve found having a good group of friends will help. It increases your social circle and gives you more opportunities to meet people, or have them meet people for you. I’d say that most of my relationships have been people that my friends have met that they thought I might like, or someone I met at a party my friends had invited me to. The best way to meet people is to make sure you happen upon enough people ;-)

Although I’m married now, and I met my husband at work. So maybe I’m not the best person to answer the question.

Although if you are looking to hook up and “meet” people. I think it’s all Online for the most part now ;-)

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