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How do I get a girl like this to like me in middle school?

Asked by YesYes123 (4points) August 29th, 2010

I really like this girl in 7th grade. Since the beginning of second semester in 6th grade, is when I started liking her. I just knew she was a classmate, but just left it at that. When I learned a bit about her in the introductions that my teacher called, I instantly liked her. She isn’t like the other girls in my opinion. The others overdress in the “latest fashions” and wear too much make up. For some reason they carry their purses everywhere, and she doesn’t. She can just wear a T shirt and jeans. We are really alike, and I know other girls like her. But they are my friends and they…. she’s just different. She is really cute, but not overly hot, like the in crowd, and she can be hot, too. She’s extra funny, and super friendly. How can I get her to like me? I’m almost exactly the same as her, it’s just that I really can’t say I’ve done anything get her to like me, yet and when I try to, I stammer with my nerdy side. (Which is like 50% of me.) I think she thinks of me as a nervous wreck, because my face turns red a lot. Mostly because she is either walking beside me or behind me. Some of my friends say she likes me and she’s stalking me when she does that, but I think it’s just coincidence. Also, when she tells me a joke (which she does a lot) I really wish I could laugh, but I’m only capable of smiling awkwardly.

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marinelife's avatar

Take a deep breath and relax. Don’t focus on how you can get her to like you.

Just be yourself. Let her know you like her—by seeking her out, by talking to her, by asking her out for a soda.

Frenchfry's avatar

You just got to start talking with her.Think of her as anyone of your friends. When you feel comfortable enough ask her for her phone number.

TexasDude's avatar

You have to talk to her dude.

Dating is all about selling yourself… making yourself look good and emphasizing your desirable traits to someone you want the attentions of. This girl sounds like a genuinely good girl and you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, despite your nerves. I know it is cliche’, but you should be yourself around her. Girls like guys that are genuine.

When you do talk to her, emphasize traits and interests that you have in common, but be subtle.

Another important thing to remember is that she is a person with feelings just like you, and if she does like you, she’s probably just as nervous as you are. Don’t put her on a high, unreachable pedestal… just take a deep breath and talk to her. The results may be better than you expect, and if she doesn’t like you? Just coup your losses, move on, and count it as a learning experience.

trailsillustrated's avatar

sounds like she likes you now

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