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How should I react about going to my boyfriends sisters thats 5 hours away from home?

Asked by kkcope123 (71points) September 2nd, 2010

I dont do so well away from home. But he really wants to me to go with him for the weekend. What should I do?

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jazmina88's avatar

try it. it’s a big world to explore and adventure. If you dont get used to it, you wont have as many special memories. He will be with you and I think you will have fun, spreading your wings.

muppetish's avatar

It’s only a weekend and if you hate it, you’ll have precedent in the future to say “no way, Jose” the next time he asks you. Bring a few reminders from home and call once a day if you start missing anybody. You should be happy your boyfriend wants to include you too :) It sounds like a good way to spend more time together.

perspicacious's avatar

Are you 14 or 35? The answer will be different.

SamIAm's avatar

take a chance. if you’re really that miserable, you’ll head back home…. you’ve gotta break out at some point!! why not now?

ModernEpicurian's avatar

Life is nothing without adventure, and there are only so many adventures that you can have in your own back garden.
Try it and see, you could make some lifelong friends, create cherished memories, cement your relationship further and have a brilliant time. If you don’t then all you’ve lost is a weekend.

Talk it through with your boyfriend, but your life is moving forward and you can either move with It but by bit or stay exactly where you are.

tiny_dancer's avatar

Share your concerns with your boyfriend, chances are if you feel uncomfortable now then it will put a dampener on your whole weekend.

Your obviously not ready to take things in that direction, and no point in forcing yourself. Wait till your are ready.

perspicacious's avatar

Tell him you don’t want to go there or anywhere else for the weekend; tell him you are not ready to travel. You might need to start forcing yourself to stay overnight with a girlfriend once a month just to keep this from growing into a true phobia.

Scooby's avatar

I’m with @ tiny_dancer
& if the boy can’t handle it then he’s obviously not the boy for you :-/ assuming he is a boy?

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