(NSFW) How do I last longer?

It’s hard for men to withstand the overwhelming feeling of a wet vagina, it simply feels too good. I would suggest wearing a condom, taking a break to do other stuff like oral when you get too excited, or see if breathing deeper helps. Sometimes alcohol makes men more numb as well.

@Blackberry I was with you until the alcohol – I don’t think drinking is a good answer to…well…anything, ever.

You sound like me. Quickdraw with an outstanding tongue. Very Nice. Heres the thing, if shes satisfied and your satisfied so what. As long as you both accomplished what you needed to the job is done. Don’t worry about it, it will give you more time to cuddle(Ewww).

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Yeah, I don’t condone drinking just to have sex, but some already happen to be drinking before sex…you know lol.

Practice, and make yourself less comfortable. When you’re new with someone you’ll find you last a lot longer, but then as you and your body become more comfortable with that person it takes less and less time (also why most people can get themselves off in seconds). Change positions a lot, think about other completely non-sexual things, and try doing it in a manner that you’re not used to doing (a new place, position, etc, etc).

Also rest assured that if you’re getting your wife off too, she probably doesn’t mind.

Pump then lick. Repeat process.

Thanks for the help. I know I am good at somethings, such as helping my wife orgasm multiple times when were together. Maybe I have a wrong view of when her and I are intimate together, years of misconception of what is real.

You need to exercise the pc muscle and build-up it’s strength before it’s going to be capable of stopping an orgasm. You also need to know when you’re about to hit the point of no return, so you flex the muscle at the appropriate time. In the meantime, the Kinsey Institute recommends:
THE SQUEEZE TECHNIQUE: just before the point of no return you stop stimulation of the penis, and grasp the tip of the penis between fingers and thumb and squeeze firmly for 10 seconds or so. This reduces the reflex ejaculation response (and possibly the erection too) in the same way that biting your lip stops a sneeze. You can then resume stimulation and repeat the process if necessary.

Try a “pre-game” warm up by yourself a couple hours before bed.

Wise words from @ChazMaz.

I suggest you read this – it’s reasonable.

Masturbate in the morning. Voila!

Hi @deni! Wearing bananas on your head will help too. ;-)

@ChazMaz hi! now shhh

Try this technique. It works, and it can be mind blowing! Not an instant fix, but well worth the time and effort.

masterbate in the morning and right before you do it and it still won’t help. Make sure shes satisfied before you put it in, thats the answer, or drugs, depending on your health plan that you have.

Exercising you PC muscle will help just as it helps women but in the meantime try these, they’ve all worked for my partners:

Masturbation beforehand..

Prostate stimulation (you might be able to cum at all though for a day)

Change positions.

Start- stop- remove & do something else, Start- stop- remove & do something else… this one is lots of fun.

Most of my partners have been good for a vigorous 20 minutes. A few could go for hours and occasionally one was less than 10 minutes and we started experimenting to bring it up to about 10 minutes.

Clean the pipes first, just like Ben Stiller in “There’s Something About Mary.” Seriously, that’s all you need to do, just don’t do it too long before or you’ll be back to square one. Christ, when I was 18 I’d have to crank one out while driving on the way to my girlfriend’s house. Perverted, but took some impressive skill to do while driving stick shift and baked.

@Neizvestnaya I just feel like crap now.

@zwingli: Why feel like crap when there’s so much you can do? You’ve already said your wife has great orgasms so to turn 3–4 minutes of great sex into 8–10 might be more important to your ego than hers. Thing is though, you can increase your stamina which means you’ll feel better and like most people, your wife will probably be fine with a little bit more of an already good thing.

You men put so much mental pressure on your tinkers to do your will that I’m surprised they work at all. We partners usually don’t have a clue as to what’s going on in your heads and a lot of times think it’s something about us. Don’t let your wife start with those thoughts, they get ugly.

@Neizvestnaya I agree with you. Too much pressure is never a good thing. My wife is definitely not the problem :)

@cockswain Lmao!

@zwingli: Are you able to treadmill furiously for a few minutes before showering and settling down to “business”? How about dropping and doing some push ups real quick. The sudden burst of energy might burn off enough tension in your body and also distract your brain enough to move to other actions with the results you want.

@Neizvestnaya I believe someone said it earlier. If I can get my wife off multiple times and she can do the same. There is nothing really to complain about :)