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EtherRoom's avatar

How can I stop being so horny ?

Asked by EtherRoom (381 points ) May 8th, 2011

I get really horny late at night, and I can’t do anything to stop it, what can I do ? I live with my family and get no privacy, so masterbation really isn’t an option sometimes…And it sucks because when it happens of course that’s all I think about. It’s annoying. Anyone know how I can make it go away ? If I’m horny and I don’t masterbate will I get female blue balls ? I’m 21. No I’m not pregnant.

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EtherRoom's avatar

My boyfriend isn’t around to “help” me and I don’t want to release it when my family is here.

FutureMemory's avatar

What about releasing it while bathing? Surely you have time to yourself in the bathroom each day?

Vunessuh's avatar

Aw man, girlie. Blue balls suck.
Well, if you have the ability to have quiet orgasms, then masturbate late at night when everyone is asleep or perhaps in the shower. No one will hear you there unless you’re as loud as a freight train. Good luck.

RareDenver's avatar

Embrace your horniness and enjoy it while you still have it

nailpolishfanatic's avatar

Lat at night… or in the shower. Do your work there.

Thammuz's avatar

Ah come on! You women don’t even have to move all that much to masturbate! Unless you’re a screamer i don’t think masturbating in your own bed while pretending to be asleep would be that much of a problem.

Anyway: just take a shower/bath, tell your family you do it to relax yourself because you’re having a hard time falling asleep and you found out it helps you. I think it’d be perfectly justifiable to lock yourself in the bathroom while being naked, especially if you live with male relatives. Bam! Privacy and relief.

janbb's avatar

Yup – finding a way to masturbate is the answer.

pshizzle's avatar

Let it out. After all, it’s natural!

Lightlyseared's avatar

Cold showers are the tradtional remedy. But they’re no fun.

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lemming's avatar

Just stop thinking about it, the more you think about it the worse it’s gonna get, get a good book, that’s what I do :(

JonnyCeltics's avatar

gotta find an outlet… suppression will only make it worse…come come come!

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

Well even though I’m not a girl I get what you mean, my girlfriend has this issue, but she manages. She usually does it during the night when everyone is asleep, but the thing is, is that she has to hold in her moans and screams…(she’s really good at that, I teased her…She barely moaned…Haha I’ll get her to for me one day) And yes, the shower is also another good Idea. It’s loud and you could have some advantages with the shower head and all the business. And also just to put it out there. If you’re ever home alone….GO WILD! After all you seem like a horny gal, my Gf does it…But after all masturbation is a natural. Good luck with this, hope this helped. :)

sliceswiththings's avatar

Some women start taking the Pill and stop being horny (it was the opposite for me though). If it’s really an issue, that’s worth looking into.

Also, this seems obvious, but thinking about sex a lot will keep you horny. Try to not let the thought enter your mind? Think about Bocce or your grandparents.

I also find that when I’m super busy I don’t even have time to get horny. Start giving yourself lots to do!

Hibernate's avatar

Well how about go ‘F around with your boyfriend before the evening [late afternoons ]

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Ladymia69's avatar

I don’t understand how you can’t find a way to masturbate sometimes. There are so many private ways to masturbate…you just have to try. Do you have your own room? Or do you share? No one sleeps in the same bed as you, do they?

Buttonstc's avatar

Saltpeter ?

mrrich724's avatar

Find a guy who’s house you could go to. . .

and do it with of course.

Pandora's avatar

Research venereal disease on the internet and look at gobs of pictures. That should be enough to turn you off for a while.

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EtherRoom's avatar

The thing is I live with my family – so I can’t really do anything here… except in the shower. But being in the shower doesn’t turn me on :/ I only get really horny at night so…. And my room is also a loft upstairs with no ceilings. There’s walls but the ceiling is open. So I don’t have privacy even in my open room to masterbate. It’s annoying when it happens and their is nothing I can do about it :( So I wanna stop being horny all the time. lol. :/

EtherRoom's avatar

@ladymia69 – Because my mom is home all the time and so is my roomate. If I’m not at home, I’m out and about. And when I get home, my mom is still there. And my room is a loft with no ceiling.

Thammuz's avatar

@EtherRoom No ceiling? how? Anyway i was suggesting you got out of bed and went to the shower AFTER you started needing it, not beforehand.

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EtherRoom's avatar

@Thammuz – It’s a loft upstairs. There’s walls. Imagine a 2 story house, and a room is on the second floor. There’s 3 walls, but one wall is open.

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XYZZYtja's avatar

Can I ask you how old you are? And where you live, I have a comfortable bed!
You may use it if you want. Ofcource it will not be free haha
Just kidding, I know what you are going through, if you want to mastrubate, just go and do something else you like! So you get your mind of the whole subject

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Thammuz's avatar

@EtherRoom Oh and you’re under the open room? That sucks. Yeah the shower is pretty much the only option.

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EtherRoom's avatar

@Thammuz – Yeah I figured that would be the only good place. Thanks.

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GigiBb's avatar

For me masturbating 85% of the time makes me more horny. I need penetration and even with a dildo it doesnt help me. I don’t know. It’s a horrible feeling. I used to take cold showers, really cold, and put ice on my private parts but it helps for a few minutes. Exercising, doing something physically can take your mind out of it and release some of that energy. Go clean something. But no bike. It can make you more horny. It does for me. I’m 37 years old. I’m married and my husband sometimes can’t take all my desires. I had issues with a lot of boyfriends that didn’t keep up with me. And im very good looking and fit but never had meaningless sex. I don’t know what else to tell you but I’m sorry. I know it is not pleasant. I don’t know why someone doesn’t make a medicine to stop it.

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