In your current relationship or marriage, what changes does your s/o need to make to improve your lovelife together?

She needs to be an entirely different woman. Ba Dum Chhh!

He needs to spend one hour with me a month in my office helping me go through some paperwork.

Nowt, she just has to change…..into something more comfortable, i.e butt naked & i’m good to go.

None as the question is asked. Little things, such as not driving fuel efficiently, or using 90% of a container of a food ingredient when preparing a dish (why not just use it all?), leaving the lights on, etc don’t affect our “togetherness more compatible with” me.

He could fall off a bridge on one of his drunken wobbles home either here or abroad. Ba Dum Chhhh!

The problem with my current relationship needs to start existing. :-/

We both need to communicate more efficiently and remind each other of the positives going in our life to contrast our complaints about our major stressors.

We both have the same problem. To be more available. We’re rarely alone. Ugh.

Nothing, really. I guess I do like for him to cook us dinner. I also like it when he takes out the garbage and I don’t have to. I also like for him to put laundry away. Sometimes I do these things, it doesn’t really matter. I don’t think there is anything that he has to do to make me love him more or to feel more together with him. I already think we’re pretty together.

Nothing of any substance. He is pretty damn great as far as I am concerned. If he would get things done around here a little faster (like putting in the irrigation system down the side fence) I would be very happy, but it isn’t a major problem. I feel very cherished by my husband. I can’t really want for more than that.

Touch me first.

(Anywhere will do!)

Wow, @LuckyGuy , your answer kind of hit me right in the face.
When did I forget that bit of life? I feel kind of stupid when I realize things that should be obvious.

@wilma I’m glad I made a small difference today.