How do you express that you want and need to be touched by your SO, without asking for it?
I feel if I have to ask for it, the action is not real. If my SO does respond after I ask, I have the feeling that it is forced. I realize this is a Catch 22.
I want SO to hold, touch, make love to me without me asking.
Some nights just before we fall asleep I find myself silently screaming “hold me” but say nothing. Am I being childish?
How do you handle it?