Did you have to have a nervous breakdown before you made a major change in your life ~?
Kind of half joking half serious. If you have made a major change, major career change, move to anew city, go back to school, divorce, have children late in life, whatever might have been a big change from your orginal plan or the main path you had been on, did you first go through some really tough emotional times to finally get to the point that you were ready for the change? I don’t necessarily mean you were miserable in your life, but that might have been the case. It also could be that your fear to make the change was very emotional for you, or the realization you wanted something more or different was very emotional, or something else.