Should girls be worried when a guy asks you to come over to "watch a movie"?
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September 17th, 2015
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So I met this guy a while ago. A couple weeks ago he asked me to get coffee, and I said yes. We got coffee and it was a blast! A couple days later, he asked me to get lunch with him and so I did and that was great too! And then, a couple days later we went on a nice walk around this lake.
Anyways, I’m really starting to like him. But I’m really scared of getting into a relationship. The other day he texted me and asked if I’d like to come over to his place to watch a movie and he would make dinner for me, but he can’t hang out until 9…
I don’t want him to try to pull any sexual moves on me. We’ve only hung out three times, which he was been very kind, but still I’m worried. What should I do? Just say I can’t go?
I’m also worried because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago, and so I’m worried I’m a rebound. What do you all think?
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Need more info. What are your ages?
Does he live alone or with parents or with roommates?
Tell him you would be more comfortable going out to a movie instead.
If you are worried, say no. Seems sort of simple to me. Just sayin
If you aren’t romantically inclined, TELL HIM. It’s that simple. If you are interested but not ready, TELL HIM. Broach the subject. Get it out of the way so the 2 of you can either continue or move on. Life is short. By the way, you should plan to contribute something to the meal if it’s a go.
He obviously enjoyed your company. If you are uncomfortable, then try it like @Cruiser suggested. You could even offer to take him to dinner afterwards and y’all can talk (sounds like you need to anyway).
Imho you’re setting yourself up for either sex or a whole lot of begging. I wouldn’t go unless you’re looking for either of these two things.
I’d suggest something else or another night when he’s free earlier and you guys can do something that doesn’t require going to his house.
Why don’t you just ask him to meet you in a public space and ask him what he’s expecting and explain what you want? Honest communication makes life so so so much easier. If he wants sex and you don’t tell him, and if he can’t handle that idea, then run. But if you hit it off so far just go slow and see where it goes.
It’s obvious that he’s someone who likes movies and cooking.
Why else would he invite you for such things?
Ask if he has a single friend that could come and then get one of your single girlfriends to go with for a double date.
And remember! Not all guys are creeps!
Ok so for an update: he hasn’t contacted me in a while which gives me the impression that he doesn’t care much for me. But my friend is actually going through the exact same thing as me and she went over to this guys house. Apparently he was super sweet, didn’t pull a move at all, and she really had a good time:) So I admit, I was being a bit of a skeptic when asking this question! Thanks for all of your answers!!
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