What is wrong with not being thirsty for women?
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April 26th, 2016
When I see an attractive women I look briefly then go about my business. Unless I am trying to get her attention. If so I will approach and try to start a conversation. My friends on the other hand act like they have never seen a women before. Most of them not all. Every time they see a women with a thick body they go crazy, yelling, screaming to get her attention. When they see me look briefly then look away they assume there is something wrong with me. They say things like are you straight, do you not see her body? you know things like that. The thing is you see women like that everyday. There are beautiful women everywhere. I like women who are unique and have their own style. By that I mean, have you ever seen a group of women or men. They all dress the same style, Talk the same way, act the same way. Their like clones of each other. Especially when you go on Instagram. Women & Men like those are a dime a dozen. Not sure if that makes sense. Not saying there is anything wrong with that. I just like a Women who have a little originality to them. I am a 1 women kind of guy. If I find 1 women I really like I stay committed to them. Some friends sometimes ask me how do you know she would also stay faithful to you. People often assume everyone cheats which is not the case. I respond by saying I will stay faithful to her, if she cheats I will move own. Simple as that. I am not the type of guy to try and talk to every pretty women I come in contact with. People often ask why I’m I still single. Well I am 26 and look 16–17. On top of that, many of the women that are attracted to me are hood/ ghetto types. I have nothing against them, but they often surround themselves with many negative people. Not all, but many of them. I don’t like a lot of drama in my life. I have found really good ones. However they are either, too young, taken, or not interested in me. Which is cool. I have come to accept that not every Women is going to like me.
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Paragraphs please. This is too hard to read.
Well, it sounds very healthy to me? Are the friends you hang around with the same age as you? They sound like they might be younger, or at least more immature.
You’re on the right course. Keep looking for the one unique woman for you and stay true to her. There’s no rush, and hitting on every female you see is immature and a put off for most women.
Dude.
You are Waaaaaaay overthinking this.
It takes all kinds of fruit to make a fruit cup. @SecondHandStoke Is right. women are individuals and not beholden to any norms.
Sounds like you ought to be more picky about your friends. They sound pretty awful, at least on this subject.
“they go crazy, yelling, screaming to get her attention” And does that ever work for them? Maybe you need some smarter, classier friends.
“My friends on the other hand act like they have never seen a women before. Most of them not all. Every time they see a women with a thick body they go crazy, yelling, screaming to get her attention.”
Sounds like your question should be – “is it wrong to not be a tactless, mouth-breathing troglodyte?”.
To answer the corrected question – no.
Maybe find some new friend who don’t act so ridiculous and spend their time objectifying women. Obviously their only value for a woman is their own sexual gratification. You, just as obviously, are above that. Go hand out in a bookstore two or three times a week. Browse the shelves and pick something that you normally wouldn’t try. Step outside of your knowledge/comfort zone. Strike up conversations with the bibliophiles you find there. Go out for coffee with some of them, male or female. You don’t need to pursue sex, just conversation. You will be surprised and gratified the connections you can make. And you can make snarky remarks at the neanderthals howling after women on the street.
Thirsty?
Quench with a wench, not a terribly bad slogan for neanderthal drinkers everywhere
Women are human beings just like you. Not a separate species. Even though you say that you are a one woman man, you are still talking about women as objects. Work on your relationships with people. Treat everyone in your life as a human being and you can’t go far wrong.
What do any of these details have to do with a woman and her biological requirement for water?
^Ha I read it that way, too.
@Darth_Algar got me thinking about your OP again.
No matter how sensible and composed you can be around women your friend’s behavior is likely still going to reflect badly on you.
Learn to be yourself, exude the confidence that comes with that, and operate by yourself.
I think it unfortunate that the OP has asked some decent questions but never had the decency to revisit/follow one up.
Thanks for being here, @idream3r, but if you’d come back to your questions once in a while we’d appreciate it, and it would increase the response.
Everyone has a level of libido.
Perhaps there levels are higher and your lower?
Also age makes a difference too.
Sorry everyone, I really appreciate all your responses. My deepest apologies for not following up . I normally respond to everyone via message. All your answers have been really helpful. Thank you all for taking the time to respond and to give me advice. Im am still getting use to how things on Fluther work.
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