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How often do you have sex with your significant other?

Asked by ronski (742points) February 18th, 2009

I always wonder about this! How long have you been with your S.O. and how often do you have sex? Oh yea, and who initiates it more often?

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A_Beaverhausen's avatar

as much as i can

TenaciousDenny's avatar

You always wonder about how much I have sex?

Freak.

jonsblond's avatar

We have been together for 18 years and I’m proud to say that we average about 4 days a week.

Emdean1's avatar

5 years and I was just told today NOT ENOUGH haha
I guess, I need to start initiating more. I am starting to think I am dating a woman.

jonsblond's avatar

@Emdean1 They love it when you initiate. It shows them that you want them.

elijah's avatar

How often?
Until the batteries die!

Kidding.

futurelaker88's avatar

@Emdean1 – you got it! its no fun when we have to try and play the “guess what im in the mood for” game. its more fun when you unexpectedly just…“start”

futurelaker88's avatar

that was supposed to be @jonsblond sorry

Emdean1's avatar

@jonsblond I do initiate just not as much as I used to. I am still attracted to him but there are times I try and its not the right time or blah blah blah. This is a constant battle :)

Sakata's avatar

@futurelaker88 Again… “Edit this response” does work lol

futurelaker88's avatar

@sakata lol i remembered as soon as i typed the second one. and i cant figure out how to delete the second one…so i just left both

futurelaker88's avatar

@Emdean1 – try whenever he is not TOO tired, and when u guys are already laying down together. if hes working on something or “in the middle of something” or about to fall asleep, it might not work as well. at least with me ;)

jonsblond's avatar

@Emdean1 Morning quickies are a great cure for the battle. :)

futurelaker88's avatar

@jonsblond – thats always good too, because its a great feeling to start the day

Emdean1's avatar

I have to come up with some new moves! I after all was the one who appoached him in the begining.

futurelaker88's avatar

@Emdean1 – theres good books for that. “The Sex Position Bible” or just make stuff up, we’ll go for anything new

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Johnny_Rambo's avatar

Often, but lately my wrist has developed arthritis….and I’m a committed lefty.

Sakata's avatar

I would love to jump in on this discussion but my libido’s on a constant roller coaster ride so there’s no good answer.

@Emdean1 I hear the same thing you do so good luck with all that.

Emdean1's avatar

@Sakata Thanks
@futurelaker88 I have to work on my timing I might check out a book or two

SuperMouse's avatar

Not one single time, and no you can’t have any of my pancakes.

Bri_L's avatar

14 years last October and our average over the last 7 years is 7 times over seven years. BUT it’s something we have to work on.

AstroChuck's avatar

It could never be enough.

KatawaGrey's avatar

Whenever I see him which is anywhere from 1 to 4 times a week.

@Emdean1: I was gonna suggest jumping him in the shower but when I tried that, I just scared the hell out of my boyfriend.

charliecompany34's avatar

i am the initiator! i’m sometimes 3 for 3 for the month or 1 for 3.

Blondesjon's avatar

@jonsblond…You did tell them that it would be seven times a week if you didn’t have to recover from the ‘stretching’ right?

Jack79's avatar

Whenever we meet. Only once though, unless it is a “safe day”, in which case we can go for a second (and sometimes third) round.

We used to live in the same city and so met at least 4–5 times a week. Have not seen each other in weeks though, and no idea when we’ll meet again. Could be a month or a year.

Emdean1's avatar

@KatawaGrey HAHAH It would probably scare mine too :)

Supergirl's avatar

we have been together 2 years and a few times a week, but that is not enough.

KatawaGrey's avatar

@Emdean1: Boys are so skittish! (But we still love ‘em)

casheroo's avatar

Depends on if I’m ovulating. We’ve been together almost three years.

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