How would you feel if you married a widow/widower, and you both were deeply in love.. but they wanted to be buried with their first partner instead of you?
I recall reading about this somewhere, but it escapes me at the moment. This question really made me stop when I read it though. Would you be offended that they never “got over” their partner that died? Or would you feel unable to measure up?
I think there is a multitude of reactions to a scenario like this, ranging all over the place. I am curious how you THINK you would react (shortcomings acknowledge) versus how you think you SHOULD react.
This question is in the General Section. Responses must be helpful and on-topic.