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Do women who wear no bra in public bother you?

Asked by Frenchfry (7591points) August 23rd, 2010

I mean not at the beach . Do you wear a bra in public all the time? I mean some breasts are bigger then others and same goes for nipples. It is appropriate, or not any more?

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Austinlad's avatar

Yes! In a good way.

ucme's avatar

Oh good god no, I mean some look like they’re maybe snuggling peanuts, but hey, I can live with that ;¬}

second_guessing's avatar

It’s very appropriate

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

It doesn’t bother me at all,as I am guilty of exactly that.
People need to find something else to get mad about…like camel-toe.—that’s just gross—XD

shego's avatar

I don’t look around at the people walking around me, unless it is just that obvious and her airbags deploy when she falls, then yes.
And I have to wear a bra at all times. I don’t care if it is broken, I will find a way to make it work.

cookieman's avatar

If “bother” = “entice” – then yes, very much so.

Michael_Huntington's avatar

I’m ok with this

serafina's avatar

As long as mine are still facing the right direction i’ll continue going out in public without one.

EmpressPixie's avatar

It’s none of my business. If they want to wear a bra, they should. If they don’t, they shouldn’t. Personal preference of another person’s clothing isn’t really my business.

Jude's avatar

I saw one yesterday in Lexington, and her boobs and belly all melded together. She looked as though she had big Santa belly (belly o’ boobies).

Hey, but, if she’s happy, who cares?

Jude's avatar

Mine aren’t big enough to worry about and they’re still perky. I can get away with it! :) But, I prefer to wear the economy size boulder holder.

mowens's avatar

I couldn’t care less either way.

rebbel's avatar

Only if they poke me in the eye.

woodcutter's avatar

only if my wife is with me

Jude's avatar

@rebbel what if they’re down south? Then, maybe, they’ll joust you in the cajones.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

This summer I’ve seen a woman wearing a short shirt with belly fat hanging over everything, a guy wearing low riders with no underwear, and parents in cars smoking cigarettes with children in the back. That’s for starters. Do you think I care if the girls go freestyle?

rebbel's avatar

@jjmah
You have a point (no pun), it is near impossible to poke me (6 feet 5) in the eye.
Even if they are perky she still has to be 8 feet tall…

OpryLeigh's avatar

Not at all. Each to their own and if they are more comfortable without a bra then why should they wear one? I have small, discreet boobs that are unlikely to offend anyone but there are times when I really enjoy not wearing a bra. Just because someone has bigger boobs doesn’t mean that they should wear a bra.

Aster's avatar

I don’t notice ! If I noticed I wouldn’t care. I never wear one on our property lol .

jazmina88's avatar

I have big boobs, but fibro and other stuff makes it dang near impossible to put one on. Had to get front hook and put it in my teeth.

Not worth it.; I’ll stay home. I like my boobs

tedibear's avatar

As long as I’m not getting hit in the face (literally) with them, I don’t care. I wear a bra because my boobs are large and I don’t like having them flop about.

keobooks's avatar

It doesn’t bother me. If I could get away with it, I’d not wear one. Right now, I’m almost 9 months pregnant and I need the support and somewhere to stuff the nursing pads. Nobody told me about why I’d need those in the last month—but thank God they make them.

MeinTeil's avatar

In a good way.

Mom2BDec2010's avatar

I always wear one in public, but I don’t really care if other people don’t.

Akua's avatar

One thing I have realized is that the older I get the less I care about small stuff. Sometimes I wear a bra, sometimes I don’t. So I could really care less what other women wear or don’t wear. Hell, I haven’t combed my hair in almost 20 years so who am I to judge. To each his own. @ lucille – cameltoe?!?! You are funny!

AmWiser's avatar

It doesn’t bother me if a woman wears a bra or not. But if she needs a bra on and refuse to wear one for whatever reason, it makes me think why doesn’t she have more self-respect for her appearance.

Akua's avatar

What is deemed self-respect and socially appropriate is based on culture and views. It cannot be judged by outsiders. At least not intelligently. The same argument was given to women who breast feed in public. It was considered uncivilized, rude and low-class when really it’s natural and healthy. If people read up on the history of who and why something was invented they would be more tolerant of others’ choices.

le_inferno's avatar

Yes it bothers me, especially if they’re saggy with nips of steel that look like they’re about to poke through the shirt. Now that’s just an eyesore. I generally always wear a bra in public, but when you’re a 32A, you wear a bra not for support, but for enhancement ;) I can totally get away with not wearing one though, and sometimes do if it’s a run to the bagel store in the morning or something like that. But I prefer not to go braless, because my nipples can get irritated after a while :/

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

No. She’s not hurting anyone, it’s her body, she should do what she wants. Although sometimes I do see the larger ones swinging and can’t help but think “how does that not hurt”?

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@papayalily I was curious about the does that not hurt part. I could care less what someone wears or doesn’t wear. When does it hurt?

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe No, hurt the woman not wearing the bra. The larger ones cause back pain if not supported, but often (especially if you’re hormonal) movement will be painful because they’re already so achy. I went braless for the first time in months around my house the other day, and my boobs hurt like hell the entire time. Would have put one on, but they were all in the laundry.

breedmitch's avatar

I understand it is completely her choice, and “who am I to dictate what a woman must or must not wear..blah blah…” but yes, it does bother me when a woman does not wear a bra in public.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

It doesn’t offend me, but it makes my breasts groan with pain when I see a large breasted woman walking around with her megamammaries just flopping around like windmills. It literally hurts me to NOT wear a bra.

tinyfaery's avatar

Mostly I just get jealous. I wish I could go without a bra. I definitely would if I could.

Akua's avatar

My sister once told me her hubby gets off watching her run on the treadmill braless. I thought it was funny being that she is much more well-endowed than I am and I wondered how she avoided a concussion.

ratboy's avatar

They don’t bother nearly as often as I’d like them to.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I don’t go out w/o a bra but it’s not because I think women should wear ‘em.

Hawkeye's avatar

I like a bit of mystery on what is hiding behind the bra

little8632g's avatar

i LOVE IT WHEN CHICKS GO BRALESS!!

rebbel's avatar

@LITTLE*^^#@G
yOUR cAPS lOCK IS ON1

BratLady's avatar

Don’t really bother me but I think women should have the decency to wear one in public. I always wear one in public. Around my house is my business.

NaturallyMe's avatar

No, not really. I generally don’t mind what people choose to wear. Depending on what top i’m wearing, i may not wear a bra either, but i almost always wear one, it shapes my boobies nicely to give me somewhat of an hour glass figure, and it makes most outfits look/sit nicer.

little8632g's avatar

@rebbel – i know i used all caps – I WAS YELLING IT! HA

Mike1969's avatar

Hmm.. I would have to say that it depends.. If a person needs support there, then I think it’s a necessity.. but if not, then whatever’s comfortable for them is fine.. I must say though that it can look very tacky in some cases..

AnonymousWoman's avatar

I don’t really care, but I prefer to wear a bra most of the time myself in public.

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