(NSFW) When your woman has her "time of the month" - what do you do for sex?

I fuck in the shower or I mange to go a few days without sex. And a four day gap in sex isn’t a big deal. I’m not that horny.

Take a break. at last!

It’s only a week. Avoid sex.

we have sex every once in a while but usually it’s a hassle. plus we have new sheets and i dont wanna risk getting anything on them. i just give him blowjobs.

I know its a natural thing but man it grosses me out. My wife and I mutually decided its a no go time for us.
So we just take that time to find new fun things to do with each other! Explore, its fun!

I could not be any less in the mood for physical contact with anyone during my period.

I mean, really. I’m bloated, I have a headache, and I’m painfully haemorrhaging from my uterus. Go away.

Whatever she is comfortable with. If she’s crampy, she’s not horny. I used to love those few days each month.

We have done it in the shower but mostly he just waits the few days until it’s over. It’s hell getting blood stains out of sheets. Maybe towards the last day I start feeling ok and the flow is VERY light, we can have sex (put a towel underneath) but the first 2 or 3 days it’s a no go. I’m too bloated and sore.

Actually, for us it isn’t a problem at all; she gets even hornier, it seems, and likes anal sex. Thanks for your posts.

We only have 3 or 4 days of light flow. The first day is the roughest, but after that, it is enjoyable to both of us so we don’t hold back, a small towel underneath offers some comfort about any mess.

Sex is great at helping get rid of cramps (at least it is for me). We don’t let it affect our sex life. We have a certain towel that goes under us for that time and we have fun.

Wait has no one discovered what I do?? Just stick the penis between your legs (answering from a woman’s perspective) so it rubs against everything. Feels fantastic for both parties, and especially good for women who don’t orgasm from sex because you can directly stimulate your clit with the penis. Also orgasm can easily be simultaneous. Yes, it makes a mess, but it’s a male mess that doesn’t stain. I’ve heard this called “interfemoral intercourse” if you’d like to look it up. I’m actually looking forward to my period next week so we can do lots of this.

Oh right, this only works if blood flow is blocked. I use a menstrual cup so everything is contained. I suppose tampons would work too as long as the string doesn’t get caught and yanked.

@sliceswiththings Can’t you do it anytime of the month, or do you have to wait until you get your period?

@papayalily Anytime. All we have to wait for is to get out of work. :) This activity just elevates both parties’ arousal so much that we usually just say f*** it and have sex, so this occasion gives us greater patience.

@Seaofclouds You know, I do remember reading that sex or was it orgasm? was good for cramps for some. It didn’t work for me. I enjoyed the flannel nightie, heating pad and tv or book.

I loved sex for cramps…...but I would NEVAA look forward to it. are you nuts??
:) jk

@faye Orgasms are good for cramps, but sometimes the getting there is just too painful or makes it worse than the orgasm helps.

Woudn’t the relief be momentary anyhow?

Mostly we wait, and by wait I mean sleep instead. But the tail end of it makes me randy as fuck, so we concentrate on the upper half of the body, especially the neck, with some clit play.

@faye Yes and no. It’s not just while you’re orgasming, it increases blood flow so your uterus isn’t under so much strain. It’s relief lifespan is comparable to popping an Aleeve.

I will happily still have sex with my man when I am on the blob, bed sheets can be cleaned and like @blah_blah said, there is always the shower. I’m usually even hornier at that time of the month so I am certainly not going to deny myself!!!

The older I get the less it seems like a big deal. These days unless the pain is too bad or the mess is too much I just go for it. Worst case, throw down a towel.

I am really impressed that these answers were so much more mature than EW THAT’S GROSSSSSSS!

@nikipedia I would like to say that I am as well, but the question was directed to men, and it has mainly been women answering. As enlightening as the responses have been from a female perspective, I would like to hear from more males and their take on it.

@Pied_Pfeffer: Good point. Maybe answerers should specify their gender? I know the first answer came from a dude.

@nikipedia
The second answerer also looks like a dude

@nikipedia The first was from the dude – Ryan

Usually my boyfriend and I wait for the 4 days. But there has been a few times where we couldn’t wait so we of course used a condom and put a towel underneath me.

I just can’t do it, the sight of blood makes me cringe almost and I can’t get aroused.

^ You’re a guy, right?

@zen_ I don’t know what the problem is. I have done it one time, but I was so drunk I didn’t care and it was dark so I couldn’t see the blood. But when I’m sober I think too many things. I also think that I associate blood with pain and suffering because of scary movies or something?

Yeah…I don’t think it’s the sexiest thing ever but neither are big white slippery globs of semen that we have to deal with on a daily basis :)

We often choose not to have actual sex, but play around with other parts of our bodies. Using one’s hands is very fun and achieves the same results.
Also, my husband doesn’t have a problem having sex with me during that time, we just have a quicky shower afterwards.

@deni Hellz yeah! That shit goes both ways, man…

Sometimes, Zen… sex is not pretty… but when you gotta…

@deni On a daily basis!?

@Tomfafa usually daily in one way or another…but…well i guess having to clean it off of my stomach is less gross than swallowing the foul stuff, but its all nasty. especially if you miss a spot. then 2 hours later you find some crusty cum…ok no more!

@deni That nasty stuff created you BUT… my nasty stuff ends up on the wall or even the ceiling.

WALL? how? hahaha

@deni You got it?

wait til granma is done with her visit, use a towel, anal, ask for a hand job, beg for a blow job, etc, etc.