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chelle21689's avatar

Is it true anal sex will cause you to wear diapers? NSFW?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) November 17th, 2010

I heard that if you do anal a lot it messes with your bowel movements and you’ll end up wearing a diaper as you get older because it’s hard to control your muscles. Is this true? I try to find information on it but for some reason I can’t.

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ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I have seen some studies that show that regularly engaging in anal intercourse can slightly increase the odds of fecal incontinence, particularly when your stool is loose. It is more likely to exacerbate an existing problem with incontinence, than it is to cause it.

On the bright side.. most of us will end up in diapers regardless of what we do in our bedrooms now. ;)

iamthemob's avatar

No. Of course, if you really, really, really TRY, you could get to that point. But you really, really, really have to try.

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I don’t know, I’ve had lots of anal sex and my ass is as tight as ever (I tried to word this in many ways, but they all went awfully awry).

Vunessuh's avatar

I imagine, for us to be sure, a study would have had to of been done over a relatively long period of time and that means a lot of men and women having anal sex for most of their lives. I doubt this has been done yet, but when it happens, somebody call me..

absalom's avatar

No, although male prostitutes are known to develop difficulty with bowel movements because their bodies become so accustomed to the use of enema. As in they begin to require an enema in order to defecate.

It’s unfortunate.

jlelandg's avatar

I know this is a general question, but I honestly want to know how absalom knows so much about male prostitutes (kidding, mostly)

CaptainHarley's avatar

Rythmically tightening the sphincter muscle on a regular basis can offset any undesired side effects of anal intercourse.

plethora's avatar

@Vunessuh Worse than that, there would have to be a control group who did not have anal sex for a long long time.

plethora's avatar

@CaptainHarley You are an unending source of wisdom

Vunessuh's avatar

@plethora That put me in a state of depression.

plethora's avatar

@Vunessuh so I see. denying access to this particular orifice, while not the end all be all, is most assuredly a hell of a lot of fun on the odd occasion

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pinkpawn's avatar

It’s very very ture,never ever try it! But may be it was too late already….?

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iamthemob's avatar

@pinkpawn – Where are you getting your information on the effects?

FutureMemory's avatar

And that’s why any sort of topic that may get “interesting” belongs in the Social section.

CaptainHarley's avatar

@FutureMemory

Well, don’t fuss at US, you gumball! It wasn’t our question in the first place! : P

pinkpawn's avatar

@iamthemob—Well,when a component isn’t in its right spot,something usually go wrong…

iamthemob's avatar

@pinkpawn – but…what component isn’t in which right spot? Also, that seems more like a conclusion based on a loose analogy, rather than actual information on the subject…

pinkpawn's avatar

@iamthemob—If i had the actual information on the subject,I would be lying in ICU instead of replying you here

FutureMemory's avatar

@pinkpawn For the record, are you saying you’ve never taken a penis up the butthole?

pinkpawn's avatar

@FutureMemory—are you serious?that’s gross

iamthemob's avatar

@pinkpawn – But then this is based on your assumptions about what could happen based on (1) no personal experience, and (2) no research.

FutureMemory's avatar

@pinkpawn How do you know it’s gross? @Simone_De_Beauvoir up above has done it “a lot” and look at her lurve score: over 27k! I think she’s onto something.

augustlan's avatar

[mod says] Please remember: This question is in the General Section. Responses must be helpful and on-topic.

If the asker requests that we move it to Social, we’ll do so, and restore the removed answers.

Lightlyseared's avatar

If you’re not careful there is always the possibilty to injure yourself quite badly. I know someone who ended up with a colostomy after her first attempt.

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syz's avatar

Considering the number of people who do participate in anal sex, I doubt it.

iamthemob's avatar

If it is the case, and someone here claiming it can show that to me…well, I’ll be investing in the parent company of the maker of “Depends” very soon…

FlutherDuckButter's avatar

It will if you go from basic anal fun.
To having a party at your home. Where everyone fists your anus.

trailsillustrated's avatar

Dan Savage says we will all end up in diapers anyway if we live long enough. Exercises take care of it. @CaptainHarley and @Simone_De_Beauvoir are right. So am I, I’ve done it lots, never poop my pants, and I’m old. PS look up the column by Dan Savage called ‘savage love’ and you will find all the info on it you want.

plethora's avatar

@chelle21689 Can you request mods to move this question to Social section so all posts will be restored and we can have a little fun? Thanks.

Seaofclouds's avatar

There have been studies done over the years that say there is a risk of anal sex leading to fecal incontinence due to damage to the internal and external sphincters, however, there have also been studies done that say the rate of fecal incontinence in people participating in anal sex is equal to those that don’t, so it really makes it seem like it’s not really a risk. I would say it would depend on the situation. If you are doing it safely and properly (not being forced, using plenty of lube, etc), I would say you have a very minimal risk since you would be doing less damage to the area.

Constipation is actually one of the primary causes of fecal incontinence, followed my loss of nerve and muscle control which is usually associated with strokes or specific diseases.

If you are concerned about it, you can perform Kegel exercises to help strengthen the muscles (they will help strengthen the muscles of your pelvic floor which are associated with urination, bowel movements, intercourse, and child birth).

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[mod says] Question has been moved to Social at the OP’s request and answers have been restored.

jca's avatar

I think there shouldn’t be a problem as long as lots of lube is used. It opens up with stimulation, like a vagina.

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