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August 18th, 2011
I may regret asking this. For the women here on Fluther, when you were younger, did you at all masturbate? I mean, instead of using your fingers, did you rub yourself against something? I had a pillow and would hop on and do the deed when I was younger. I had no idea what I was doing was wrong. I just knew that it felt good.
Is this common? Or, was a I freak?
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It’s common, very common and no, you’re not a freak :D My mom used to help supervise a kindergarten/1st grade recess—at first, she was really weirded out and upset by how some girls would sit or move on the play structures, but realized it’s common enough that some of them stimulate themselves briefly, and common enough that they don’t.
She told me because I was concerned about my daughter’s self-exploration (was panicky she was molested or something) and that’s when I researched and found it was really normal. What I found odd was how they knew at age 5 or 6 how to be subtle and keep it to themselves—it’s a process of self-discovery—some discover, others don’t.
I hoep it helps to say that one of my grandaughters started doing that when she was only three years oid.
It’s not strange at all. Many women and men have done this.
It’s wrong? I don’t think so. I never masturbated like that, but I would never say or think there is something wrong with it. I used my fingers, and sometimes other objects, I was more penetration oriented than rubbing against something.
You might want to readnthe Hite report that studied female masturbation. Here is a link to wikipedia about it.
Common. The less common part is that many women in their youth finds a “thing” that works, then they have trouble getting pleasure without that object. Sometimes it’s a corner of a table or a piece of plastic…etc.
As far as I know a pillow is quite the norm as most kids have one.
One of those pads you put on an office chair that massage your back up and down. All the time.
When I was little, I used an electric toothbrush or something else that vibrated. And what @deni said! I’ve never really used my fingers/hands.
When I was young, I rode horses everywhere. The hard leather saddle would rub against my clit, through my pants and I enjoyed I very much. I didn’t even know what masturbation was back then.
@Facade Ohh! I used a motorized toothbrush too HAHAHA that made me laugh, I totally forgot I did that.
The corner of the bed. I didn’t know what I was doing or why it felt good, but it was awesome.
Yeah, sure, when I was 2–4. Various frottage techniques. It’s really common, as @linguaphile said, though when they’re younger, they don’t realize they shouldn’t do it in public (or that people can still see them during nap time).
Frottage, that’s one of my favorite things to do now.
Especially when on top. I find, for me, I’m able to hit the clit better. I am able to position myself well. She moves underneath me and finds her spot. Yummy. One of the easiest ways for me to cum.
I remember starting in kindergarten but I would use my hand. Jeez Louise I felt weird admitting that. My little girl is 2 and does it. She puts her blankets between her legs and kicks one leg. She looks like a weird cricket so we call it “doing crickets”.
Ain’t nothing wrong there, and it doesn’t make you a freak. Me, it was table legs. I humped them, haha.
My sister and I used to climb the bed post of our bunk beds! It seemed to work better for her than for me. We got this sensation we called “the funny feeling”! Of course we had no idea what is was. But we knew enough not to mention it to Mom.
I think that @Symbeline and I should just get a room.
Eh fuck the room, I’m too eager to start! ’‘shags’’ :D
Just give me your leg, Lol!
I used my fingers, as far as I can remember. I don’t remember much about that part of my life though.
All the women I have ever known intimately have intimated youthful masturbatory behavior. I’d say it’s very common and sign of healthy development. There are many stuffed animals out there that had noses or paws et cetera in places parents or playmates wouldn’t have guessed. I was called in to be the doctor for several peer patients / young ladies, and they enjoyed it as much as or more than I did; I knew that even then, but not with the understanding I have today.
My first orgasm came from rubbing my against the bed, I was about 12 when I discovered that. For a long time I couldn’t make myself orgasm by just using my fingers. I hope you don’t regret asking this question, it’s nice to know I am not the only one who masturbated in this way!
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