Christians: Usually say the rules in the Bible are meant for their liberation as by having clear rules, they’re free from the burden of always wondering what they should or shouldn’t do, but are confronted with all kinds of internal turmoil as they realize that there’s a lot of rules in the Bible and they’re really hard to follow.
They default to (A) anything that Jesus said and (B) Old Testament laws cherry-picked to meet their, or their pastor’s, sensibilities, like bans on premarital sex or homosexual activity, but not on shellfish/pork and work on Saturday.
Jews: Jews are divided into more or less three large groups: Hassidic Jews, Orthodox Jews, and Reform/Liberal Jews.
Hassidic Jews follow an Eastern European tradition of wearing wide-brimmed hats and taking the whole Old Testament literally. They’re not “Orthodox”, since only Eastern European Jews and their descendants act this way.
Orthodox Jews are a little more philosophical and interpret the Old Testament with relative uniformity across the world. They follow all the rules, except the really dated ones (ex: slavery), and aren’t literalists.
Liberal/Reform Jews follow only some of the rules, accepting most of them as dated. Kosher food is optional, for example, as it is no longer practical and now more of a personal sacrafice.
In all three instances of Jew-dom, Jews do not see the rules as meant to control them, but give them freedom to operate without concern, but especially the literalist Hassidics. Imagine how liberating it must be to have simple choices made for you.
You have time to worry about more important stuff!