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How do you get rid of a friend?

Asked by jamzzy (885points) August 27th, 2008

my friend who shall remain nameless because i do log onto fluther at his house…idk if he checks but i will assume he does….well hes a DICK.

hes in my ‘crew’ which consits of me and three other people [him included] and hes a dick to all of us, theres many examples but one being… he flirts with my ex when i clearly tell him i still like her a lot….i feel betrayed when you do it….can you please stop. WHAT SHOULD I DO..

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loser's avatar

Are you really asking us a question, or just talking to your friend?

SuperMouse's avatar

Ask him to help you figure out a song and then refuse to tell him the name of the song it turns out to be.

Well just ask him to stop and if he doesn’t cut him loose.

trumi's avatar

If you love him, put up with it as much as you can but try to push him towards kindness. If you don’t, cut him out.

You know which it is. There are friends you have a deep bond with, that will mature and get over themselves, and then there are just total assholes that you get stuck hanging out with even though you don’t want to.

TrenchantWit's avatar

sounds like a scumbag to me…ditch him it’ll hopefully teach him a lesson and if it doesn’t at least you don’t have to deal with his poo

ideabrian's avatar

the real question is, do you have the integrity to follow through on doing what you threaten? (if you did, your friend would know it)

ninjaxmarc's avatar

is he really a friend or a parasite?

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AstroChuck's avatar

loki has an excellent suggestion. The only problem is it’s often difficult to obtain a wildebeast on short notice this time of year. You might want to consider bison. Not quite as effective, but they’ll do in a pinch.

JackAdams's avatar

I’ll quote from the late Abbott Howard “Abbie” Hoffman (1936–89), who is credited with saying, “There is no problem so large, nor so complex, that it cannot be solved with a suitable application of high explosives.” [paraphrased]

Ya gotta love that guy…

August 28, 2008, 5:35 AM EDT

BarbieM's avatar

Do the rest of your crew feel the same way or is it just you? I know you said that he treats you all badly, but how do the others feel? Do they still want to hang out with him anyway? If the rest of your friends still like this guy, all you can do is suck it up if you want to hang out with our other friends. If all of you are sick of him, you just have to stop including him in your plans. Stop going to his house, etc.

Galicia's avatar

I would go to his house and borrow or steal as much as possible and then never call him again.

No, actually you should just be honest. Tell him he’s a dick and that you’re sick of his behavior and If he wanted to keep you as a friend he should seriously examine his life and tell YOU whether or not he thinks he’s worthy of your friendship.

And then you should eat all of his food.

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