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carebare's avatar

I met this guy that I am interested in so far, I only met him once, but I had a good first impression. We are going on our first date this week, any advise on what to do and what not to do?

Asked by carebare (10points) May 25th, 2009

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MrGV's avatar

Typical answer would be “be yourself”,

Other then that start off with small talk and work your way up from there.

aprilsimnel's avatar

Listen/pay attention. Don’t worry about him liking you. You want to like him as well!

nikipedia's avatar

Shave your legs!

Supacase's avatar

Ask questions about him. Not only does it help you not seem self-absorbed (not that I think you are) but it gives you information to decide if he is someone you would like to see again.

Be your normal self, not the better version we often show to people at first. You want to know that he likes the real you.

Les's avatar

Don’t worry. Just talk, laugh and have a good time. There is nothing to worry about; if it doesn’t feel right, there is nothing wrong with that. But if it goes well, you’ll be able to think of things to do and say. And, as I always say, this date is not one sided. He will have somethings to do and say, too.

brettvdb's avatar

Don’t expect a lot – just go in with modest expectations and ask lots of questions – everyone LOVES talking about themselves. Pay attention to whether or not he asks about you – this will let you know if he’s interested in you.

RareDenver's avatar

DO laugh at his jokes

DON’T put out!

vaudevillian's avatar

Play it cool. And yes, just be yourself.

Bobbydavid's avatar

Open top, short skirt and make it absolutely clear you’ll put out!

TitsMcGhee's avatar

Relax. Ask questions. Don’t “embellish” facts about yourself; if it turns into something more, you don’t want to start out on a not completely truthful foot. Think about how far you’d be willing to go physically and what that might say about you. There is no right or wrong when it comes to that, but you should be comfortable with what happens. Best of luck!

Lonestarwildman's avatar

Do a background check

shazza's avatar

make sure your safe and if your young tell your parents and they could take you to me him just incase hes not the boy you met before x x

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