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kevbo's avatar

Do women notice when you absentmindedly finger their brastrap/clasp while giving them a hug?

Asked by kevbo (25606points) June 17th, 2009 from iPhone

Just one of those subconscious behaviors that comes from being in a LTR.

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Tink's avatar

Yes!! If you snap it hard!

absentmindly uhuh sure

La_chica_gomela's avatar

What’s an LTR? I can only speak for myself, but YES, we notice! (duh)
Edit: Oh, a long term relationship? Well if it’s my boyfriend, I notice, but it’s not at the forefront of my mind or anything like if a random acquaintance did it.

EmpressPixie's avatar

YES. Yes. Yes. Yes. We notice when anything fingers our brastrap/clasp.

RedPowerLady's avatar

I’ll add another resounding Yes to the answers here.

@La_chica_gomela Long Term Relationship

gymnastchick729's avatar

Usually it’s more than just noticing.

eponymoushipster's avatar

i’m usually doing a thong check. never snap the strap.

chyna's avatar

Since my clasp is in the front, I’m sure I would notice someone “absentmindedly fingering my clasp”.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@chyna that’d be an interesting handshake.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

Yes, definitely.

Aethelwine's avatar

I noticed when the Schwan’s guy “absentmindedly brushed his hand against my tit ” when he went to pet my dog.

We’re not all blonde stupid

casheroo's avatar

I would definitely notice. are you talking about doing this to random women, or your girlfriend? because I’ve never had a random guy do it, I’m pretty sure my knee would have a little reaction if I felt I was being groped

eponymoushipster's avatar

@jonsblond wow. and i thought ice cream guys just molested children.

casheroo's avatar

@jonsblond I hate when men brush up against my ass. Thankfully I have small boobs, so they’d have to do some maneuvering to get that close to me. lol

Aethelwine's avatar

@eponymoushipster you haven’t been to central Illinois. I seriously didn’t know what to do at the moment. It could have been an accident. Right? hahahahaha

chyna's avatar

@casheroo I figure men just brush up against mine to see if I actually have an ass. It’s flat and all my pants kind of hang in the butt.
They tell me at work that I’m built like a boy, no hips, no butt.

casheroo's avatar

@chyna It’s always intentional. I’m convinced.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@jonsblond i lived in chicago. but we expected pervs there.

@casheroo never ride the subway at rush hour. hehe

DrasticDreamer's avatar

@eponymoushipster Ugh! You reminded me of a disgusting perv that was standing directly behind me when it was standing-room-only on the MAX during the Rose Festival. He KEPT pushing his dick onto my ass and I had no room to get away! Him and all of his asshole friends kept laughing. I told him to back off, but nothing. Finally, an older guy looked at them and told them to knock it the fuck off or he’d knock them out, and he managed to scoot over so I could stand side-by-side with him. Fuckin’ perv…

eponymoushipster's avatar

@DrasticDreamer sounds like a nice guy (the older one, not the dick pusher)

i honestly feel bad for women on the train. i mean, if it’s unintentional, it’s one thing, but a guy rubbing his dick against you is weak shit.

kevbo's avatar

It was a theater friend, but I do that kind of thing every so often without thinking. Generally, I don’t mean anything by it other than getting a little lost in the moment. Weird, I’m sure.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

@kevbo I don’t think it’s weird at all. Minds wander, even if you don’t realize it. If she hasn’t freaked out about it or given you any weird looks, she either likes it or just doesn’t mind in general.

augustlan's avatar

Eh, I wouldn’t be bothered by the strap or (back) clasp. Now, if it’s my actual goods… you’re going to notice some groin pain. ;)

When I was a teenager, I had a male hairstylist that would always manage to lean up against my hand (resting on the arm of the chair) with his dick. Every. Single. Time. I finally switched stylists.

La_chica_gomela's avatar

Uh, I would be bothered…

PrancingUrchin's avatar

@jonsblond, I’m from central Illinois, little did I know about those pesky Schwan men. Probably not many interested in guys though. However, I’m all for more Schwan women. :) Wait, would I really want a girl that was just driving around a big freezer all day? Nevermind.

dynamicduo's avatar

Yes, I would notice very easily. Yes, I would think it was weird. If this happened, I would feel more comfortable with an explanation of any type, just like what you’ve provided here.

Milladyret's avatar

Would YOU notice if a girl fingered absentmindedly with the wasteband of you boxer when giving you a hug?

Thought so…

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Milladyret there’s a distinct difference between “notice” and “care”.

also, you have to be wearing them to notice it.

Milladyret's avatar

@eponymoushipster There is also a difference between ¨care¨ and ¨mind¨...

are you trying to tell us that you don’t wear any underwear?

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Milladyret wouldn’t you like to find out, you cheeky norselady?

chyna's avatar

@Milladyret Don’t ask him that, ah, too late.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@chyna seriously. am i such a freak?

chyna's avatar

@eponymoushipster just a sexy monkey.

Milladyret's avatar

@eponymoushipster Come here and show me, make me laugh!

@chyna sorry, automatic response. Won’t happen again.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Milladyret “make you laugh?” pfft. probably make you gasp and faint from excitment!

Milladyret's avatar

@eponymoushipster I’m sorry, did I hurt for feelings?

Come on over, and I’ll make it all better, you little sex monkey ;)

eponymoushipster's avatar

score. sex in a fjord!

Milladyret's avatar

The fjords are still a little cold, but I’m sure that won’t bother you at all, right? Hmm? Then you jump in, and I’ll stay on land, camera in hand, ready to spread the ¨good word¨

eponymoushipster's avatar

@Milladyret i sense your sarcasm, and i choose to ignore it.

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