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DO you have a message for someone from your past?

Asked by 6rant6 (13700points) January 7th, 2010

If you could get a message to someone from your past completely anonymously and with no chance of their guessing it came from you, what would you have to say?

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dutchbrossis's avatar

I would love to tell my ex boyfriend what a low life piece of crap he is and how his efforts to ruin my life have failed. Although of course with that it would be obvious who it was.

Just a message that he wouldn’t know who it came from would be something like, words I wouldn’t want to post here. lol

dogkittycat's avatar

I would say “you’re an idiot” to the person since I haven’t spoken to him in years and he really screwed up his life and had oprotunities to fix it but lacked the ambition and he’s such a bleep-hole that I wouldn’t want to see him and tell him myself.

sjmc1989's avatar

“F**k you and the 40” flat screen I paid for!”

wonderingwhy's avatar

I’m usually pretty good about getting stuff out in the open with people, but I can think of one situation where I let my pride get the best of me and because of it lost my chance to tell someone how I really thought of them when it mattered most. If I had the chance, I’d probably tell my younger self to stfu, tell the rest of the world to stuff it, and say what needs to be said – without it we both turned out pretty well so i don’t know that it would really change much, but I’d like to think we’d have been better and closer for it.

SarasWhimsy's avatar

I miss you, but I’m so glad you are no longer in my life. Every day I am so glad you are no longer near me.

aprilsimnel's avatar

I’m sorry. I didn’t mean it. :(

ChocolateReigns's avatar

I would tell this guy I liked that I liked him. I really think he liked me too and that if I had had a chance to get to know him as more than “a guy in church” I really think we could have had a beautiful relationship. All I can hope for is that our paths cross again someday and I get a chance to atleast find out what he did with his life.

Austinlad's avatar

Years ago, I had a friend and work-mate who died suddenly from an anurism. I was stunned by his passing, not only because of how unexpected it was, but also because we had been out of sorts with each for days, with neither of us wanting to make the first move to make up. I’ve always wanted to tell him how much I wish I could have patched things up with him.

Michael_Huntington's avatar

I just want to leave him this song

Chikipi's avatar

Probably you need to get help with your addiction and live a normal life.

We probably would have worked out if his mistress of his life wasn’t drugs. I just want the best for him now.

Dr_C's avatar

It was fun while it lasted.. too bad it didn’t last longer.

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

I recently tracked down some kid to whom I was unkind when we were both in grade 6 (35 years ago) and apologized for my behaviour.

I expected a rude reply, which I would have deserved, but instead I received a gracious letter that made me glad to have reached out.

That felt better than anonymously abusing someone from my past.

Darwin's avatar

Other than “No, I won’t lend you money!” there isn’t much I would say to anyone except an ex-boss who is lower than a snake’s belly. And that is too detailed to go into here.

HGl3ee's avatar

Karma is gonna kick your ass!!

Note: It SOOOO did!!

Bluefreedom's avatar

“Hello (my ex-wife’s name here), you should agree to exile yourself to some obscure and uncharted island somewhere in the Pacific Ocean so you can no longer be a nuisance to others.”

janbb's avatar

God damn you!

saraaaaaa's avatar

I would absolutely love to tell my ex that I am over him and that thought makes me more satisfied than he ever did!

bitchy I know…heh

filmfann's avatar

I wouldn’t have a message for anyone in my past.
I would just like to know they are okay now.

NaturalMineralWater's avatar

You will die in seven days. (to all of my mortal enemies over the years)

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

They’d know, invariably, that it’d be from me.

YARNLADY's avatar

Your first born son has suffered a severe stroke and can use all the help you can give him.

liliesndaisies's avatar

I would tell him i’m glad i was too smart to leave.

Bluefreedom's avatar

Non-anonymously:

“Dad, you’ve been gone for almost 9 years now but I just wanted to stop by and tell you again how much I love you and how much the family misses you and we sincerely appreciate you looking in on us from time to time from up there.”

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