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Heterosexual Women: Do you find gay men a turn on?

Asked by RareDenver (13163points) January 16th, 2010

It’s common knowledge that lot’s of straight guys find lesbian sex a turn on but do many straight women find two guys going at it a turn on?

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BraveWarrior's avatar

No, I don’t.

Judi's avatar

This was on my nephews facebook status today:
Girl: “Come dance with me.”
Me: “Ok.”
Girl: “My adorable little gay boy.”
Me: puzzled look
Girl: “You are gay, right?”
Me: “No.”

She walked away right after that.

dutchbrossis's avatar

I don’t. I am sure there are some that do, although the gay guys I have met are awesome people

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

If you ask do I find gay/male voyeurism (porn, movies, stories, etc.) a turn on then, yes. It’s one of many things I find erotically arousing. I have seen live gay/male sex acts and my curiosity was aroused but not my body so much, I get way to clinical up close.

Jude's avatar

I’m a lesbian and I find gay, male porn to be a turn-on. Heh. Go figure.

jrpowell's avatar

I go to gay bars a lot. Usually my sister tags along. She goes since guys don’t really hit on her. I go to dance with girls like my sister. They want to dance with a guy, just one that isn’t desperate to fuck them.

It is usually great fun and guys buy me drinks.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I’ve never really thought about it and so I suppose that means that I don’t really find them a turn on.

avvooooooo's avatar

I don’t find penises pretty or entertaining… unless applied in a certain way. So that’s a no for me.

delirium's avatar

Yes. Yes.

fireinthepriory's avatar

Ditto @jmah! Go figure. Straight porn freaks me out but I’m down with gay porn, be it dudes or ladies. I think I’m just attracted to homos, basically.

knitfroggy's avatar

I don’t personally. I watched a gay porno with a gay friend once and it really wasn’t for me. Lesbians on the other hand, now that I love to watch!

SarasWhimsy's avatar

Yes and Yes and Yes and Yes. Gay sex, gay men, all of the above yes. :D

augustlan's avatar

Yes. Oh, yes.

Facade's avatar

A turn-on? Not in the least. I find the flamboyant personality amusing though.

hug_of_war's avatar

I’m bisexual and man on man action just doesn’t do anything for me.

SamIAm's avatar

no. and this is coming from someone who spent last night at a gay bar’s drag show. :)

holden's avatar

No, but I do rather find lesbian sex a turn on.

fundevogel's avatar

Not really, no. But a well written/acted romance (emphasis on well written I hate popcorn romance) is a beautiful thing no matter the gender or sexual orientation of those involved.

chian's avatar

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo as a straight woman i find women on women more sexual than gay men!!

JLeslie's avatar

No. I get turned on when I imagine what the sexual encounter is like for the person I identify with, and I identify with women.

punkrockworld's avatar

no haha.. but i do find them special in a way :)
Most of them are fun to be with.

prude's avatar


sjmc1989's avatar

@prude ^ I find your username and answer to be such a contradiction ^...I love it!

LethalCupcake's avatar

I don’t think they are a turn on at all – But I do find them ADORABLE!!! >.<

Saschin's avatar

I’m a gay man and I find heterosexual women a turn on.

LethalCupcake's avatar

@Saschin well then that wouldn’t make you very gay would it??? Hmmmm….

DrasticDreamer's avatar

I don’t, but my sister does. And I know a few other hetero women that are turned on by gay guys, too.

icehky06's avatar

Sometimes, they’re usually really cute and nice! They always have awesome style too!

delirium's avatar

I think mostly it’s a matter of the fact that they just take care of themselves better…

LethalCupcake's avatar

@delirium ur absolutely right

Axemusica's avatar

Straight male here and nope not in the least. I also find lesbian porn boring unless they look like they’re really into it. I dunno I’m weird. ~shrugs~

Jude's avatar

“Jenna Jameson lesbian porn” (fake tits, tons o’ make-up) doesn’t do it for me atall. I like my lesbian porn to been a little more believable, preferably with ladies who truly dig other ladies and aren’t ridiculously fake and made-up looking.

With two guys, I like it when the one is more dominant (“power top”) than the other. Very hot.

With straight porn, again, no fake tits/perfect everything. Oh, natural, I dig.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@jmah: I agree about the fake crap in porn actresses. Why do the women all have to have tattoos, belly button piercings and huge fake paddle shaped fingernails? I enjoy asian porn more because there are fewer fake/distorted body parts, less makeup (if any) and in hetero scenes they actually show the men paying more attention to the women’s bodies and actions that would actually be arousing.

delirium's avatar

@hungryhungryhortence French porn, for example, is excellent in this regard. It’s artsier, from what i’ve found, and doesn’t focus on fake women and money shots, but actually manages true eroticism.

Arisztid's avatar

@Axemusica I also find lesbian porn boring. In my mind there has to be the possibility of me joining in for me to get into it. Lesbian porn, by definition, excludes me.

Violet's avatar

No, and I don’t know any women that does

LunaChick's avatar

Yes! I love gay men and often joke that I’m a gay man trapped in the body of a woman.

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