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How do you show your love to your special one?

Asked by cheesecakeattack (87points) January 29th, 2010

How do you show your love to your special someone?

I know the Hug, the Present, the Conversation, the Compliment, and the Sexual Acts, but I am quite curious for more techniques.

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Pandora's avatar

Little thoughful gestures speak louder than words.

ridicawu's avatar

Cleaning for him. Cooking or buying dinner. Little things like that to make his stress levels a little lighter.

SeventhSense's avatar

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Generally speaking I like to share stuff but the way he and I interact..it works for us…I don’t know why I don’t want to share it.

cyn's avatar

tell him what you really feel about him/her. Be sincere.

bean's avatar

Told him I loved him every day. Comforted him when he was depressed. Paid for everything while he was jobless. When he had a short term job he’d forget something and I would go to his work to give it to him when he asked. Always let go of the constant lies and excuses he told me. Put up with his backstabbing. Put up with his lazy and very irresponsible ways. he never made the first move to want me intimatly. always hinted ‘I don’t want to have sex with you… but i’ll take a blow job’.

but you know…. in the end, he broke up with me… because we had a bad fight…. I guess he didn’t love me just enough to stay.

viainfested's avatar

I tend to do little gestures like buying his favorite soda to bring him before we hang out, or wake up before him to make and bring him breakfast in bed. Little surprises like that here and there…. giving him a plush blue rabbit with a mustache… Taking him places he’s never been before, show him food he’s never eaten, doing random ridiculous things that he probably never would have experienced if he never met me.

life_after_2012's avatar

If im in love, i find it hard to stop showing my love to my special someone. for me words will never be able to express how much a person means to me, but i always make sure that the first thing in the morning when we wake up next to each other that she realizes the best part of everyday for me is seeing her beautiful face. it makes me jump right out of bed shit,shower, and shave and take my ass to work and get that MONEY!!

bean's avatar

@life_after_2012 majorly deep dude…. romantic~

Cruiser's avatar

Love is not just all the big things that you list….it’s the little things that are the cement to building a strong loving relationship….love notes left for them to find…poems on a day they least expect it…walking hand in hand anywhere out of the ordinary routine of your life…sitting on a couch with your legs all tangled up while you each read a book…most importantly….telling them everyday how special they are to you, if you can do that and mean it, you will build a strong loving relationship.

DrMC's avatar

I fill his bowl with cat food

Tenpinmaster's avatar

I believe the biggest component to showing your love is to be there for them not just through the good times, but especially the bad ones. I show my girl that she above all others, if first in my life and the only one that I want to be with. Although she says I spoil her I don’t think of it as such.. I think of it as little reminders that she is my one and only. I think that little reminders every single day will make an everlasting devotion that will survive through the times. In my case, telling my girl that I love her and why I love her every day allows me to continuously reinforce my feelings for her.

LethalCupcake's avatar

Massages, kisses for no reason, telling him how hott he is

deni's avatar

tons of kisses. and other little things i wouldnt do for other people like finishing his laundry when he forgets or cleaning the oil stain on the floor while he’s at work and convinced it’ll never come off. just stuff like that.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

Beyond sex. A lot of physical contact, massage, foot rubs, washing her hair for her. Doing more than half of the household work (all of it when she had a heavy client schedule). Making her favorite “comfort foods” when I thought she was feeling down. No-reason presents, sometimes quite lavish. Rather than buying her a new car, I had a classic sports car that I knew she loved restored in her favorite colors (and got rid of all the British electrical demons). I was always “right there” when her unpredictable PTSD triggered and learned what was necessary to soothe and bring her down. I always tried to be the point of stability that she could venture into the world from. She knew that my love was absolute, unconditional and eternal.

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