How many partner's have you had, and how many makes you offically a Slut. To both male and female?

In the dictionary, slut refers to women not men. It says:1) A dirty, slovenly woman. 2) An immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute.

I thought you would only be a pro, if you got paid for it.

When I was younger I wanted to marry a lady who was a slut in the bedroom. But instead I have married a lady who is a Nun, In the bedroom.

Thats straight from my dictionary app. Apparently it came from the word slutte, which has ties to dirty and nasty.

Sounds like a mouthful!

I think the contemporary usage refers to someone that has sex without emotional attachment. Less of a number, more of a “I’m board, want to shag?” attitude.

One. And although it depends on the person… I’d say when you’ve had sex with
more people than you are old.

Four.. I tend to find myself in long-term relationships before I make whoopee. I have never had a one night stand. I demand a visit to the doctor for both of us before I will have sex with someone.

And you are a slut if you will sleep with someone after they buy you a drink.

You sound like a bag of fun!

A bag of fun that can pee without discomfort.

In JPs defense… I agree totally. I’d never have sex without a doctors visit and that’s final.

A delicious spontaneous fuck is good and all, but never worth my health.

I was just thinking, their are other precautions you can take. The main precaution I use is, I don’t tell them where I live. (Joke)

Condoms don’t protect completely against herpes…. And fellatio is no fun with one on.

No but it could be a tempary measure?

I’m really not so desperate that sex can’t wait… Its simply a matter of priorities.

Nate and I waited 2.5 years before we had sex.

Take my comments with a pinch of salt. I would not mean to offend anyone on perpose, sorry if I did.

No chance of that I am sure.

axelfoley, go to bed, go to work or go to school, just shutup for a while. (and open your spell check!)

JP similar thing happened to me with a friend who worked for me in a hospital. Best of care, death a bit more dignified, but indiscriminate gay sex killed him.

Slut: Will jump in bed for a beer w/o any emotional attachment

Cardinal, not much chance of that either. I try to make light heart out off everything. Sorry about your friends.

We apparently need to work on what you consider to be “sense of humor”

When my mum told me she had cancer, the first thing I said was “Don’t worry, you can by some lovely wigs now day’s” If I broke down and cryed that would of upset her. We had a laugh together and are trying to look on the bright side of I. The time we have left I want to be fun. She feel’s the same way. Make the most of wha timet we have left.

don’t try to out-compassionate anyone. And that doesn’t really count as humor.

I have one and will stick with that one.

I think the whole idea of a slut was just made up my men who didn’t want women to go out and enjoy their sexuality. They wanted to control their daughters, wives, and sisters so they made it that women with “too many” partners were considered dirty or nasty. There’s nothing dirty or nasty about it if you respect & protect yourself. Sex is fun and doing it with however many people I like is my decision. I think its natural for someone to have multiple partners throughout the course of a lifetime. I think its stupid when people save their virginity for marriage or religious reasons or only want to have sex with one person their whole life.

This has been asked before, except for the slut part

Hello Bulbarton, how’s it hanging.

Pretty good! How are you doing today?

Must not grumble, I gave everyone the chance to vote me off this site. It only lasted 15 minutes and Fluther pulled it off. You nearly got rid of me.

It’s definately a gender-biased question and a (hypocritical) gender-biased term.

I agree with eklamor, however I think that all partners should be aware that they are not the only person that you are sleeping with…