NSFW, ladies, opinions/comments about facials?

My opinion is guys think they’re (facials) really exciting which is the only reason I would bother. For me, it’s kind of gross because the stuff is like warm congealed snot going up your nose instead of being blown out and it stings like shite to get in the eyes or gunked up on eyelashes- have fun stumbling to the bathroom to rinse off, spooge doesn’t rinse well.

@Neizvestnaya Well, that just sealed the deal. Yuck.

I don’t enjoy oral sex anyway – giving or receiving. Just doesn’t do anything for me.

@Neizvestnaya the idea is to not use water to get it off :P

@uberbatman: our power steamer is burried in the garage :(

Back in the day (when I did the dudes), I was like “please, not in my eye!”.

I’m a guy and just don’t get it. Why would any man want to pull out of any spot that is nice, warm, and wet just when he is ready to come?
It also seems that it’s a bit of an insult to do it on your partner especially when she’s spent the time to put on makeup and look nice.
Why would anyone date a guy that demands it?

I have never received a facial and I never want one. Thankfully, my boyfriend has no desire to give me one so we’ve never had to have that awkward conversation. :)

@KatawaGrey: I once had a bf who obsessed with the idea of giving them and I flat out refused, mostly because he was so adamant that I figured it was all about his pleasure and very little about what mine could be. With another bf then there was a small curiosity and not much of a drive to do, it was more a “nasty yucky dirty-sexy” to him I thought needed exploring to loosen up his inhibitions and for him to be more open with me thereforward.

I never let anyone do it to me because i always thought it was “degrading” but for the first time the other night I let my S/O and it really wasnt as bad as I thought it would, be, like @noelleptc said if I dont have my make up on and plan on going somewhere after id let him do it, hey does things that make me happy in bed I can only return the favor ^_^

McSweeney’s recently published an interesting reflection on facials.

It doesn’t sound like sharing a sexual experience- more like he watches too much porn.

Yeah.. I’ve let guys do it.. and I think it’s demeaning…

For me… It depends on the guy and his attitude. Sometimes it doesn’t bother me, other times I feel that it’s extremely demeaning – which is where the guy’s attitude comes into it. It’s usually obvious if the guy is having or wants to have a power trip. In those cases, I do not allow it to happen, even if it’s “for fun”, because it’s not fun for me to be treated like an object and humiliated on top of it, if that’s his goal.

Generally, I’ll let it happen if I feel that the man will be okay kissing me after it’s all said and done. If he isn’t willing to kiss me, I’m not willing to let him come on my face – because if he thinks it’s gross to get any on his mouth or face, why the hell would I let him do it to me?

Hmmm, tried it once, went all over the dog! I’m a useless shot…...poor little Spunky, she had to have a bath :¬)

It is degrading. And gross. And doesn’t it feel better when you cum in a mouth anyhow? I’ve never had one and I probably never will. If I’m offering to swallow, and he says “NO, i’ll just cum on your face” then I say “bye!” It is not up my alley, or street, or highway.

@ucme what the hell was little Spunky doing so close to the sex act? Watching?!?!
Something you wanna tell us? lol
Oh and yes I would do it depending on the person and yes he’d have to kiss me after. But seriously, I’d rather just put it in my mouth…

@Akua Nah doggie style was later on. No i’m afraid little spunky was a figment of my imagination. As was the whole “event”. Just my little joke see :¬)

@deni We do like the mouth… but we also like… pretty much everywhere on/in you…. as incredibly perverted as that sounds. Its kind of a mood thing. ( for me at least).

You know… If you ladies dated someone without a prostate this would not be an issue.
It feels exactly the same but there’s no muss, no fuss. Or so I’ve been told.

i dont get the whole degrading thing. Unno maybe its just me but I dont look at it in a degrading matter at all. I find it hot, couldnt tell ya why but I do, but degrading? never, I love my girlfriend more than anything in this world, I would never want to degrade her in any way.

I think part of it may be a domination thing. Guys like dominating, and some girls (at least some I’ve met) like being dominated. Maybe not balls to the wall chains and whips crap, but your typical spanking hair pulling etc, etc.

Really if you think about it, why people of both sexes find different stuff sexy/hot/erotic is kind of intriguing.

@ucme Hmmm, tried it once, went all over the dog! I’m a useless shot…...poor little Spunky, she had to have a bath :¬)

You say the weirdest shit sometimes.

@FutureMemory Your point being?

@worriedguy: are you saying a man without a prostate still has good orgasms? I am prostate ignorant.

I’m a male that had a longtime GF that would ejaculate big and most of the time.
If I pleasured her orally I had a soaking coming if I didn’t duck out of the way. I practically never did.
Her cumming on me drew me deeper into her intense experience. It fostered a greater feeling of belonging, and it was fun.

In a pornograpic film no viewer is going to witness the male’s ejaculation unless he withdraws from the man or woman he’s topping at that moment. The orgasm is intense and possibly concluding for some. I understand why it could be considered an important part of the session.

Regarding some people considering facials demeaning: I believe it depends on a number of factors. The recipient’s perspective and the man’s mentality to name two. As far as it’s possibly being demeaning we should consider those couples that desire that effect.

All possible aspects of a sexual experience are going to be more intense and meaningful to those with imagination, patience and communication skills.

@uberbatman its that it is foul. my opinion is that i will swallow cum without a problem in this world, but having it on your skin is a whole nother ball game. a whole nother sport, if you will. its fuckin gross. it doesn’t come off….one time my boyfriend came on me in the shower, you’d think THE SHOWER, easiest place to get it off…but no. and if it gets in your hair, don’t even think about getting it out any time this week. it dries, then when you shower to get it out it globs up like glue and doesn’t budge. that’s my take on the whole ordeal. i dont need the hassle. lol

@deni as I said above, water makes it congeal and harder to get off. I unno, I get womens juices all over my face when Im down there and seem to have no problem with it what so ever. But i suppose everyone has there feelings about these things. But see, the reasons you said for not liking it are easily justifiable IMO its like saying you dont like analigius for reasons like that, but for those saying its degrading, I simply do not get it. If its an act between two people who are in love with each other how can something be degrading

Degrading and not fun at all is when the guy wants to grab or hold the girls head while he beats off against or at her face and them spooge all over it with no regard as to where the spooge goes. That’s a completely selfish act, not much sharing or love there, more like, c’mere bitch and check this out… ICK. And guys wonder why some of their girls grow to destest giving them head after a while.

I’m curious is guys ever feel this way about another guy spooging all over their face, up their nose, in their eyes and being pretty much held in place to gag on the gunk?

@Neizvestnaya in your scenario yea, that is degrading, but it doenst always happen like that. As per your second thing, no i wouldnt be down for that as I have no attraction for men, but if i was with a woman who was a squirter, I wouldnt back away from it at all.

@uberbatman: I am personally biased because I’m a big texture freak and mens “glop” seems so different than womens slickiness. I could handle women’s stuff all over me, no problem.

@Neizvestnaya fair enough but again, that is a personal bias against something texture wise, I still dont see how that falls into degrading. again, your specific scenario, sure, but its not always like that.

@Neizvestnaya Hey I was prostate ignorant too until I had to learn about it. Re.your question above. Yes! It is amazing. You pulse and shoot exactly the same as before. It feels the same except there is no goop. Seems like the best of all worlds to me. And I can fake an orgasm just like a woman now! Oh, Oh, Oh! God! Oh God! Yes! YESS!

It’s not worth having surgery just to get this feature but it is a plus. Warning, Your mileage may vary.