Somebody please tell me why my absolutly straight boyfriend is wearing female panties? Its upsetting! I feel like its for perverted reasons!

I predict this relationship does not have a long life. There is nothing wrong with cross dressing, but if it makes you uncomfortable, you need to re-think your relationship.

And this is barely cross dressing. It’s just underwear! If that’s the only thing going on, count yourself lucky.

Why does it bother you?

He likes it. You don’t. Somebody has to give or it’s over. Like @iamthemob says, it is only underwear. Let it go. For the record, I new a girl once who liked men’s Jockey briefs. And only the white ones. Go figure!

Like @nikipedia asked, I would also like to know why it bothers you, specifically.

The only way it would bother me is if my boyfriend was actually wearing another woman’s underwear. If they were mine (as long as he didn’t ruin them) or if he bought them on his own? Eh, no big deal.

To each his own. I think if he feels great doing that, and you do not, then you need to talk.
And I dont blame you not wanting your guy to wear them all the time, womens panties are not wide enough through the crotch. A man’s beautifully ugly parts squeeze out.
Not attractive that.

haha well think about it…I guess it’s not like he’s wearing a mini skirt, a training bra, and make up. see Now THAT’S a whole different thing…. That…not to much. So yeah I agree count yourself lucky I guess. Nothing see able right? He doesn’t sag his pants?

simple. WRONG WRONG WRONG- if he woulda told you, much different. but he didn’t.

First things first. 95% (or more) of tranvestite men are straight. So what he does, doesn’t make him gay. It also doesn’t necessarily mean he’s transsexual or wanting to become a woman. It’s just a fetish, and as fetishes go it’s a relatively harmless one.

http://www.transpartners.co.uk/#/what-is-transvestism/4530916312

I agree with @YARNLADY – if this makes you uncomfortable I feel that the relationship is doomed. He won’t be able to change his behaviour: the only question to consider is can you accept it?

I can’t blame the dude. Girly underwear is soft and yummy on my skin.

Panties today….halter tops tomorrow. Unless you plan on sharing your entire wardrobe with him soon, I would find yourself a mans man who puts his boxers on one leg at a time.