When you had children what was the driving force?
Was it that you wanted to be a parent? Be in that role?
Was it that you wanted to continue your family? A way of having immortality?
Was it that you wanted to have children with your spouse?
Was it to have family around as you grew old?
Did children just seem like they would be a lot of fun?
How would you sum it up, and did having the children acheive what you wanted? Or, thought you wanted?