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Mama_Cakes's avatar

"Sometimes, I just want to be held"?

Asked by Mama_Cakes (11160points) August 17th, 2013

Ever get like that?
No sex. No talking. Just being held.

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21 Answers

Pachy's avatar

Yes, and sometimes I just want to hold.

zenvelo's avatar

Yes. And it lowers blood pressure and boosts self esteem. The world needs more hugs!

Hawaii_Jake's avatar

Most definitely, yes.

Blondesjon's avatar

Change “held” to “acknowledged” and I’m there.

I’m not much of a touchy/feely kind of guy. I have no problem whatsoever giving it when it’s needed but I don’t require a lot of it myself.

Coloma's avatar

No. I like to cuddle but don’t feel the need to be held.
I’ll take a massage instead. lol

bunnyslippers's avatar

I’m a hugger, so yeah I get that way sometimes. I also have days where I don’t want to be so much a looked at much less touched… I don’t know what that’s all about, I’m like a mood ring though, you can tell what kind of mood I’m in just by looking.

janbb's avatar

Oh yes!

Sunny2's avatar

I understand the need and will reciprocate.

tedibear's avatar

Yes. Far more often than it actually happens.

talljasperman's avatar

When I need to be held I watch In the garden of your mind.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

<<< The holding type, but only if you want.

Never really enjoyed being held.

Katniss's avatar

Yes! Yes! Yes!

AshLeigh's avatar

I’m cool with it, except when I’m sleeping. I don’t like being near someone when I’m sleeping.

RealEyesRealizeRealLies's avatar

Do you like being near someone who gives you a good reason to stay awake?

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

Oh yes! Ever straight, married men sometimes just delight in being held close with no talk or other agenda.

woodcutter's avatar

Whats not to like about it?

Berserker's avatar

I like to hold people. Like, with my claws while my teeth are shredding their throat to ribbons.

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