Do you treat your children the same?
This question IS NOT about playing favorites, although if you know you do, speak up, please.
This question is about treating them the same. Is one more trustworthy and therefore given more freedom? Did one have an earlier bedtime at the same age as the other? Maybe one is better at saving money so you let him control his allowance, while you hang on to the other child’s in an effort to help teach her about saving and spending?
Maybe one can’t be trusted alone in the kitchen. Maybe one got a car and the other one will never drive if you can help it.
How have you raised your children differently? What happens when they notice or call you out?