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goethesghost's avatar

Women: have you had a vaginal orgasm?

Asked by goethesghost (16points) March 9th, 2009

I’ve heard that it is relatively rare. Is it true?

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dynamicduo's avatar

My experiences with my body agree with your claim. Clitoral orgasms are easier and more frequently had than vaginal orgasms. For my body, I have vaginal orgasms only in a certain sex position (from behind) and this is more of a G-spot orgasm than a vaginal orgasm, if not completely a G-spot orgasm.

For my body, there’s simply nothing in my vagina that would be pleasurable to cause an orgasm, apart from the G-spot. In fact, a large penis or toy, if it hits my cervix, causes a lot of pain. The most sensitive and pleasurable area of my vagina is the first inch where there are a lot of nerve endings, which are best stimulated directly (finger, tongue, small toy) versus with a penis (which tends to spread things out and creates a different pleasurable feeling than direct stimulation). The clitoris is very similar both in design (nerve endings) and function (direct stimulation). Of course, everything ultimately feels good, it’s just good in a different way. It’s like a buffet, too much of one thing is not really good, a bit of everything is the best approach for a fun night in my mind.

dlm812's avatar

Never. :/

TitsMcGhee's avatar

Yeah, but it’s not that easy to achieve, like @dynamicduo has said. Regardless, I’m sure as hell going to try!

nebule's avatar

I wouldn’t say that I’ve had a vaginal specific only type orgasm…but i’ve had one that can be felt a lot more vaginally than clitorally if that makes any sense….

hearkat's avatar

Yes; and it was only with one particular partner who fit me perfectly.
Size matters, but that doesn’t mean bigger is better. It’s more like Goldolocks: there’s too small, too big, and juuuuusst right – and one size does not fit all.

kevbo's avatar

One of my ex-girlfriends did, and they were multiple. (I think she had ten once.) She also generally came when I did from the excitement of it all. It’s too bad I wasn’t that into her, because that’s obviously pretty hot.

I also had a female roommate who told me she had them.

Mr_M's avatar

Where do you buy them? Amazon?

aneedleinthehayy's avatar

I don’t think women really have orgasms from vaginal penetration. They are liars!

Maybe thats my jealousy talking…

TitsMcGhee's avatar

@aneedleinthehayy: Ahem, I resent that :P

casheroo's avatar

This sounds silly, but I’m not sure. I know when I do it to myself, it’s clitoral, and when I’m with my husband. Only one other man has ever given me an orgasm, and I don’t really remember them…it’s been a long time lol.

mjchatter's avatar

Absolutely, without question…

Dr_C's avatar

Seeing as though i don’t have a vagina… and the penis is apparently much easier to stimulate…. i wonder… does it really matter what kind of orgasm you have? wouldn’t the fact that you can even have an orgasm (a feat not common to all women) be enough of a reason to be happy? why question it?

generalspecific's avatar

I wish. It’s pretty retarded that a guy can orgasm through intercouse but most women don’t. I mean, it doesn’t make any sense. Sex = orgasm. That’s how it should be.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

@generalspecific: I like the way you think.

El_Cadejo's avatar

@generalspecific yea well i think its pretty lame that a girl can easily get a LOT more out of sex than a man can. Multiple orgasms..Fuck even multiple different kinds of orgasms… We dont have any of that. Stop complaining. :P

aviona's avatar

I am glad to know that I’m not alone! I technically have, I guess, but it took a lot of stimulation in other areas if you know what I mean!

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