Do you have any tips on male masturbation?

Use lubricant.

Get rough with his scrotum and testicles. Don’t hit them but do squeeze and tug. They’re more resilient to pain than you think, and the stimulation definitely makes a difference. He’ll tell you when it’s too much.

Is there any way you can demonstrate ON ME what you do to him? I’ll be able to give you a better answer if you can. And, who will profit in the long run? Not ME, but your beau whom you WANT to make happy!!! He deserves it!

Wow @Quagmire. You’re a true class act. Get out of my life

@Quagmire Please read profiles before answering like that :)

LOL! @sjmc1989—I was going to spare him the embarrassment and shame, but some men just have to be handled I suppose. Good job! :)

give yourself a stranger.
sit on the hand you masturbate with until it loses any feeling and masturbate!

I would tell you to switch between oral and your hands. Your saliva will be a great lubricant and who doesn’t love oral! Also be sure to use your hands when giving oral sex not just the mouth and being able to deep throat is always a plus.

and your welcome!

Actually, @jho1188, you probably should have mentioned your homo-orientation in your Q. It’s not clear unless one reads your profile. After you’ve been around awhile and people know who you are, it’s likely to be less of an issue. I’m not saying heteros are exempt, but it’s always good to consider your aidience when framing a Q. Thanks.

and I say this because it means you have a more immediate understanding of male anatomy than a female, so the responses would probably be different. Okay, enough policing.

True, @kevbo, sorry guys—I’ll change that up now. I am gay, folks and the only reason I ask is because I’ve never masturbated before—yeah I know that sounds like a load of shit, but it’s quite honest. I just never did.

You win some, you lose some! :)

However, since you’re male, why is there ANY question as to what will please another male??

Oral sex!!!!!!!

Finger his ass while you perform acts on him , spit on his member you have the best lubricant in your mouth . You could also squeeze real hard maybe rub your nails against it also .

The hand/mouth combo works well. Sloppy is good. Do to him what feels good to you.

@Quagmire It’s okay I thought it was hilarious I was actually checking to making sure it wasn’t a 14 year old girl answering. Thanks for the laugh :)

As I said moment ago, @Quagmire, I’ve never masturbated myself so how am I to know what feels the best? I’m sure YOU could give me a lot of feedback on the matter though :D LoL JK

Since you are both men, you both know what feels good while masturbating (yourselves).
I think it would be easier, as compared to boy-girl, to tell each other what you like to be done at a certain moment.
So, communicate while sexing!

edit: it wasn’t clear to me that you hadn’t masturbate before.

use sandpaper
feels good man

@jho1188, even if it’s true that you never masturbated YOURSELF, your boyfriend masturbates you so you actually HAVE. I think it’s safe to say that whatever he does to you that feels good, he’ll like also.

When at home or your mom’s house always make sure to lock the door. And when in church try and sit in the back of the balcony and bring an overcoat.

You could be a dare devil and ASK him what he likes .

Wow. @teh_kvlt_liberal and @AstroChuck—you guys are great, LOL! Not that I’ll ever need to beat off in church or at my mother’s house, but hey. And sandpaper? Stupidity is not fun for anyone! And no need for attitude @sandystrachan. If I wanted to ask him, I wouldn’t have asked Fluther.

As in any sexual question on here, if I’m not familiar with the asker, I always read their profile first. It can steer you down the right path.

As for answering the question, grab hold & enjoy. ’-)

@jho1188 Then you should have asked , i really don’t think this is a Q for others to answer . Anything we suggest he may not like , to save you the time and him the possible agony or discomfort ask the person who is going to be tossed off . If you are the tosser ask the tossie if he likes it or not.

Well, of course, @sandystrachan, I’m not stupid. For instance, the man who suggested sandpaper, I’m not dumb. I know a general forecast of things he’ll like and things he won’t, but I was asking for creative input. I get the basic concept, however, wanted something other than the same ole same ole I’ve been providing him with.

If you don’t want to make a mess, use paper towels. Like put it over your penis and masturbate with it.
They might be rough, but not as rough as sandpaper.
If you want to make a bigger cumshot, then drink some water (I think 6 hours) before wanking.

@jho1188 Sandpaper really works by the way , we constantly have to buy it along with the shopping . We say we have so much sanding to be done to the shop keeper…......
Tell him to close his eyes and think of someone or something different , you could also use the many porn and sex websites for a better response and broader selection .

@Quagmire that was hilarious!

Hm. No thanks @sandystrachan – I don’t want to fist him or DP him. I’ll just stick to what everyone else is saying. Thanks.

@sandystrachan, with all that sandpapering, it’s a wonder he doesn’t tear his pants with the sharp point he must have.

@Quagmire In the words of the little kid in kindergarten cop ” Boys have a penis , girls have a vagina .” While with the sandpapering i tend to make sure my wife leaves a smooth rounded tip .

That’s good. For a minute, I figured you were more skillful then Zorro!

Just the same, with the way I’m getting genders wrong on this post, I may NEVER go on a blind date again.

@Quagmire It’s a genuine mistake to make , most Sandy’s are female .
If you had looked at my profile and read some questions i asked tho…....
No i don’t expect people to read profiles , unless you wanna add them t your fluther . It doesn’t bother me if people class me as female online , it’s when people class me as female face2face or on the fone thats shocking . That hasn’t happened yet and doubt it will .

@kevbo: I’ve been around for quite some time, and I’m still amused at people who are not sure what my gender and orientation are, since I don’t think I’ve been especially secretive. Though to be sure, if I had a question like this, I’d be sure to specify details like those.

@Quagmire Giggty-oops!

You guys are crackin’ me up! :-)

I’m confused..you’ve never masturbated? Or you’ve never mutual masturbated?

Watch him do it himself, then duplicate his hand movement.

I’ve never masturbated myself, like I’ve had about 4 boyfriend, 2 of which I’ve been sexually active with, this one which likes me to give him handjobs and I just don’t know what to do. I’m 20 and suppose to be in my sexual awakening I suppose.

@jho1188 Apart from using both mouth, hands and lots of saliva be sure to seem eager (not desperately eager) to perform both oral and a handjob on him. If he see’s that you enjoy pleasuring him and you really get into it. That will turn him on even more.

Well Besides the good old try it on yourself…
I’ll tell you what my girlfriend does on me. Maybe he’ll like it too.

a little Squeeze on the testicles as you stroke him and while you stroke him play with the Testies by passing them from side to side on your hand, not too rough but don’t leave them alone. Oh and while your Stroking him make sure you hold firmly and spin your hand a little bit to give you a little umph.
Umph? hope you’ll know what I mean ;D

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@Malcrony & @sjmc1989—thank you so much! You’re def. helpin’ me out! :) Thanks everyone else too! :)

Have you ever watched porn before? It’s pretty educational, in a crude sorta way.

Really, I think you should try it on yourself, first. Figure out what you like. He’ll pretty much like the same things.

Besides which, not all guys are the same. For example, I like to be rubbed slowly and touched lightly, with fingers or mouth. In porn, I often see women going so fast, and it seems so rough to me. It makes me hurt, and I’m not even being touched. But, I guess, some guys must like it fast and furious. Some guys probably even like sandpaper. No joke.

Some guys like their balls to be sucked. Some like light tickling behind the balls. Some like their asses fingered or penetrated by fingers. Some like their nipples sucked while stroking them. Slipperyness is real good, and if it comes from natural lubrication, that might be better than artificial. Depends how fast you want to go. Personally I prefer it slow, and once the lubrication appears, for a little bit of speeding up (just a little bit) and also to start stroking more towards the base of my penis.

When I first discovered masturbation, it was because I was lying on my stomach on a soft, cloth sleeping bag. I was 13. I must have moved my penis on the cloth a little, and it felt good, so I kept on doing it. Boy was I surprised (and delighted) when I came!

After that, I kept on doing it lying on my stomach (spitting in my palm for lube) and dry (wet) humping my hand. Later in life, I discovered the delights of doing it with just my fingers, although, that was easier when I was watching porn.

Anyway, whatever you like on yourself, your bf will probably like. And I know you said you didn’t want to talk about it, but believe me, if you do talk about it, and if you can ask him what he likes, it will be so much better for the both of you.

Also, like @sjmc1989 said, looking like you really enjoy what you’re doing to him, will turn him on, even more. Like if you get excited by him getting excited. Perhaps if you are pleasuring yourself at the same time. It’s very hot! When my wife cums, it usually make me cum, too.

Also, and some people might think this is gross, but when he does cum, if by your hand, you may want to lick it up. That’s another symbolic way of showing how important he is to you, and if you act like it tastes like nectar, he’ll probably want to do it again, right away (unless he has issues about that kind of thing)!

It’s all about atmosphere and theater. It’s about making someone believe you just can’t get enough of them, and you would do anything for them. It’s about making them feel like the absolute center of your world. I could talk you through the whole thing, atmospherics and all (I think I have a talent for that kind of thing), but I think that even I am not willing to go that far in public (or private, for that matter, except for people I know extremely well).

Take your unit in your hand, squeeze, and stroke up and down.

Prostate stimulation. He could use a toy “back there” and there some are made specificallly for male stimulation. So no need to break out some massive rubber dong and scare him out of the bedroom.