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(NSFW) When I pleasure myself I say the name of the girl I like (somewhat love) "Amber" is that a odd thing to do? (1st awkward question....)

Asked by Vincent_Lloyd (2958 points ) July 11th, 2010

Yeah I’m all open here so I have nothing to hide. Yes I do masturbate ,but it’s all normal it’s not like I’m doing anything crazy with my body at my age. But I’m still in puberty so I think I have the right to masturbate and “explore” my body. But to the question…When I do I say her name over, and over again. Is this a problem to me? Is it something I should worry about. Will I look at Amber any differently than I have been? (Please no criticism. I don’t need bad opinions….)

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charliecompany34's avatar

yeah um amber is a good name to call in the heat of the moment. you are a safe master bater.

sharpstick's avatar

Do you know someone names Amber?

Jude's avatar

nevermind

janbb's avatar

Is she the girl you write haiku to? Sounds perfectly normal to me.

charliecompany34's avatar

amber is hot, isnt she? been there. rock on bro

sharpstick's avatar

Is it Amber Lamps?

wundayatta's avatar

I trust Amber is someone you like? If so, then it seems completely in keeping with the need to fantasize in order to have a good masturbation. (Can there be a masturbation?)

Even if Amber is just a random name your mind picked out of the ether, I wouldn’t worry about it. Fantasy is a necessary component of masturbation, and any name or word or thing that has erotic or emotional properties for you is entirely appropriate.

TexasDude's avatar

You have a crush dude.

charliecompany34's avatar

back in the 80s i had a girlfriend named amber. i was so crazy about her. so many warm summer nights and the music and mood was just right. she wore short shorts when i visited her and i was so crazy about amber.

she went off to college and forgot all about me. i remember my “amber”:

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

If thinking of Amber and saying her name enhances your enjoyment, then there is nothing wrong with it.

cookieman's avatar

@jjmah: ha! I just spit out my water. ga.

And yes, it’s perfectly normal.

Now if you had to use a power sander while chanting “Ethel Merman, Ethel Merman” to get off…THAT would be weird.

dpworkin's avatar

That’s sorta cute.

PandoraBoxx's avatar

Totally normal.

Jude's avatar

@cprevite I edited (thinking that it was a bit too much after I read that he was a youngin’). I should have keep ‘er.

Pandora's avatar

Depends. Does your hand look like an Amber?

zenele's avatar

Totally Normal.

I also say Amber. She’s a fox.

PandoraBoxx's avatar

@zenele,does Jeruba know about Amber?

zenele's avatar

Again… she’s happily married.

;-)

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

@janbb : Yes! It is her from my haikus.

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

@everyone : thanks for the answers but i’m also wondering would it change the way I look at her? I mean since I pleasure myself to her so I’m thinking I might…

janbb's avatar

Shakesepare had his “Dark Lady of the Sonnets”, I think your’re o.k. with Amber of the Haiku. If it changes the way you look at her and you don’t like it, maybe switch fantasies. Otherwise, it’s fine.

casheroo's avatar

You should tell her. I promise, the restraining order won’t last forever.

CMaz's avatar

Hmmm, I think I will start using the name Amber.

Do you think she will mind?

Jude's avatar

I’ll be switching from Chazzie to Amber now..

wundayatta's avatar

There are plenty of very hot fluther women to focus on, should Amber wear out her welcome. Or your welcome. Uh… whatever.

CMaz's avatar

@jjmah – Me too. :-)

zenele's avatar

@wundayatta does it for me, too. Just saying.

MRSHINYSHOES's avatar

Yes, that’s perfectly normal. Some of us are primarily visual and some of us are primarily auditory when it comes to learning things and enjoying sex, and some are both. You seem to be somewhat auditory, as the name Amber seems to heighten the delight you feel because you associate it with the girl you love, and by saying her name out loud, you make a connection between what is in your mind and your love interest. I think it’s good that you speak the name of your love when you masturbate. I don’t think it will alter your image of Amber in a negative way, unless you fantasize about negative things when you masturbate. As long as you think of her in a romantic manner while you’re using her name during masturbation, you should be okay. It’s better than groaning and moaning like an awkward bull and fantasizing in a rough manner, like I sometimes do! Lol. ;)

jlelandg's avatar

Go for it! Spank banks are all apart of growing up.

jayleno's avatar

You are on puberty? God I feel so jealous! I wish I had the chance to go through puberty. But luckily, I still have the “Tonight Show”.

smilingheart1's avatar

The way you put it, it all sounds good. Here at the factory, they just say “Go f… yourself”

filmfann's avatar

Just don’t do it on the bus going to school.

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