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How do u make a guy fall in love with you because you are really in love with him? What attracts him the most?

Asked by love408 (147points) April 4th, 2008


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gailcalled's avatar

See sibling from you..

ppcakes's avatar

you can not make someone love you ever.

iSteve's avatar

I agree with ppcakes. And if you do, it’s not real. It’s gotta happen naturally.

pattyb's avatar

listen to Bonnie Raitt “I can’t make you love me” hear the desperation in her voice, its a powerful, insightful , incredible song.

joevip's avatar

Just move on find a another to love

kevbo's avatar

Read How to Succeed with Men by Louis and Copeland and follow about 20% of their recommendations (or more).

Zaku's avatar

Just get to know them as yourself, and be open to things going the way you’d like them to, and see what happens.

@joevip: What? love408 will then want your advice again, and move on to find another, and move on…

jrpowell's avatar

People are really complex. We all have different fingerprints and we are all attracted to different things. Therefore, there isn’t a magic formula everyone can follow to ensure that someone will fall for us.

My advice:
1: Be yourself.. Do you want to be something you aren’t for the duration of your relationship?
2: Maybe he likes you and is too shy to let you know. You might need to make the first move.
3: And it isn’t love you are feeling.

lovelyy's avatar

you can’t make someone love you, people make their own decisions. if something like that does happy it wont be true love, you will just be forcing love.

TheHaight's avatar

he isn’t worth it if you want to “make him fall in love with you”.

gailcalled's avatar

Making someone “fall in love with you” is akin to making a tone-deaf person sing opera well, making my 93 yr old mother learn to use a computer, or teaching me how to write code. In two words, im possible.

cwilbur's avatar

You can’t make someone fall in love with you. It’s either there, or it isn’t, and if it isn’t there, you need to move on.

sexyred1130's avatar

well babe girl sometimes if you find a new friend the one you really love will come to that have happen to me couple of times!!!!

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