Why do you think this guy would stand me up?
Ok we were just going to hangout, he lives kinda far but he said he would drive. I don’t know if he got into a car accident or lost his phone or it died but I haven’t heard from him for two days. He said he was on his way and he would be here at nine but he never showed or answered phone/texts. Any advice?
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He found a booty call that lives closer.
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It sounds like it could have been a prank, could of decided to go with another gal and is too embarrassed to call you with either an excuse (lie) or the truth. or he was in just that bad of an accident.
“Any advice?”
Yeah. Fuggedaboudit… and him.
Chickened out? Could you be a lady vamp?
Sounds like you got lucky.
I don’t know. how would anyone know? He stood you up. Maybe changed his mind about you. Maybe a million other possible reasons.
You need to look elsewhere for male companionship if he is not answering your calls or texts.
How old are you guys? If you’re still in high school, it’s possible his parents stopped him from coming over, and he’s too embarrassed to tell you so.
it’s clear he wasn’t intrested, move on
Need more details. How old are you people? How did you meet? How long have you known him? Etc…
Chances are he’s a jerk but its at least worth knowing some information to consider extenuating circumstances.
I’m 16 met him at a party he was reallly nice, I’m sure something just happened cuz he said he really wanted to seee me, I’m just confused
Only an idiot would do that, regardless of age. Unless he’s DEAD then there’s no excuse he couldn’t have found a phone or computer to call you or text you some sort of lame excuse after two days. Sorry but shyness, awkwardness or whatever wouldn’t stop an interested and marginally polite human from making contact, this guy is a dud.
@Neizvestnaya I agree. Dud. How can you stop loving someone for a month. I feel sorry for her. I only sound harsh in my answer because I don’t want her to hurt herself from becoming attached to someone who isn’t attached to her.
@Mikewlf337: I feel harsh too but I’m one of those people raised to give everyone the benefit of a doubt and it often times got in the way of the plain and simple, I hate to see other people get the run around and get sidetracked by dumbaxxes. You’re right, why waste yourself on someone who needs cajolling in order to return interest. grrr.
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